someone who thinks and believes the same as you? Me personally I like someone who is the same as me.
2006-11-02 14:01:13 · 21 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being with someone that is different than you is exciting in the beginning, but gets old after awhile. Eventually you want someone who shares your hobbies and interests.
2006-11-02 16:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by eddysmomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to share the same values and essentially believe the same as me. Everyone thinks differently, and I'm okay with that.
As far as interests, as long as a few are in common, I like it when the other person has interests of his own. Gives me a chance to see new things.
2006-11-02 22:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by sarcastro1976 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same
2006-11-02 22:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Asia 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A couple should share common interests, but I don't want a clone of myself, either. I like the idea of having someone around who sees life differently than I do - it makes me look at everything with fresh eyes.
2006-11-03 00:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I prefer not totally opposite of me. I prefer him to have some same interest as me, same religion, same having a close family concept,etc.
2006-11-02 22:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by Renew 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like people who are similar to me in core values ie religion, politics, etc, but with different interests or different character attributes, just to keep it fresh and interesting. I tried dating someone exactly the same as me...wasn't my cup of tea.
2006-11-03 00:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the opposite can be fun for short term... but for a permanent life partner I want someone more the same.
2006-11-02 22:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by zmj 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a small town Texas girl. I met this guy who was in the military stationed in D.C. originally from Michigan. With me being a southern bell and him being from the North we bumped heads on alot of things. He was used to girls being independent and I of course being from the south wanted to be treated like a lady. Small things like holding the door open. But I dunno something about him being totally opposite from me attracted me to him. He wasn't like the guys in Texas I had always dated. He showed me so many things and taken me to places I never would've dreamed of seeing. Just riding on the subway in D.C. I was like omg! bcuz we don't have those in Texas but just the look in his eyes when he saw how excited I was ... just I dunno made it even better. We've been together a lil over three yrs and married for a yr. We still have different views on some things but we are still going strong.
2006-11-02 22:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have opposite personalities, although we do agree on a lot of things, there is also a lot that we don't agree on!! but I think we balance eachother out!
2006-11-02 22:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i like guys that are different from me enough that it makes them interesting, but still think the same as me on some things so we don't clash about everything.
2006-11-02 22:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by girl. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋