I just recently started going out i girl that i have known a couple of months. Its been two weeks into the relationship and shes somewhat distant already. she used to call everyday with an energetic attitude, we would talk and laugh. now when she calls she hardly speaks unless i ask a question and i hate those awkard silences. i dont know maybe its due because she is kinda ill right now...i hope thats it. then when we hangout together she tends to be quiet. i dont know then at times she will be normal again. but when we hangout with other ppl shes more talkative. also i have noticed she tends to act fine around her other guy friends but when i try talking to her shes just quiet and says yes to everything i say. well i dont know maybe she doesnt feel good or im boring her. girls what do u think. i love her to death and i let her have her space but she acts bored now and she was not like that before. well any suggestions on y she is acting like that would b nice thank u
2006-11-02 13:59:27 · 6 answers · asked by Gonzo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you?
I think she is disappointed by your relation.
Maybe she met someone else or she cheat and feels really bad about it......
You have to face the situation & ask her clearly.
2006-11-02 14:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by silvinpower 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's funny...I recently had this same problem. Wanna know what happened? We broke up. I liked her a lot, and it was kinda hard for me, but I got over it. And now that it's over with, I feel a lot better that I got out of that position. If it's not working out, and you can feel her getting distant, she's probably never gonna change. Move on. It's easier than it sounds, and it's better off in the long run.
2006-11-02 22:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's ill you could give her roses and chocolate,but if she's not and acting weird than she must of told you everything she wanted you to know.if THAT doesnt work,you could talk to her and tell whats the matter.Now your getting advice from a 13 year old girl so im not sure if my advice will work but gie it a shot
2006-11-02 22:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she is totally bored with the relationship, the newness has worn off and deep down inside she may not want to be with you anymore. Maybe she has an eye on someone else. Don't waste your time with someone like that. It will only make your life miserable and keep you confused.
2006-11-02 22:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by Linda R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fix it. Just add some excitement to the relationship, i.e. go to someplace new you'll both like. Make an effort to have fun. It should rub off. Chances are she's probably just pms'ing so just don't sweat it.
2006-11-02 22:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ciavana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in this situation...it doesnt mean that u guys are gonna break up right away coz u know girls (like me) have their mood swings. like sometimes, they'd feel sad and stuff like that then after that...back to normal again. just ask her what she really feels about you and ur relationship. Goodluck! :)
2006-11-02 23:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ pErFeCt_LoVeR ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋