he is 42 and still married she is 21 living together.he has 4 kids she has none of her own.he was married 24 yrs....cheated with this girl while still married and felt no guilt at all......will or can this relationship last?........he has no money so its not that....
2006-11-02 13:23:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it can NEVER last! She will tire of him soon! When that happens, get ready for him to be knocking at your door! Good Luck!
2006-11-02 13:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt it will last. Sounds like it is lust and not love from his side. Also sounds like mid life crisis in which case the chances it will last is almost nill. In fact, from what I have seen on quite a few of these situations is that the younger woman usually dumps the man. What does a 21 year old know? They do not even know what they want out of life at that age, and usually, eventually, get bored by an older man with too much baggage.
2006-11-02 21:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sundar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to believe that this relationship will work. I feel that because of the whole cheating thing this would cause trust issues between the two of you knowing what you are both capable of. You know the old saying "the grass is always greener on the other side". I've lived this life and I hate to admit it, the saying is full of truth...
2006-11-02 21:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by jrw3571 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can last if they have communication,but chances are it will not, my money is on him becoming bored again and cheating on the 21 year old as well. Cheaters often establish a pattern of this type and only break it after a life changing experience.
2006-11-02 21:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to think that, he cheated on his wife when she got old, and so he will probably do the same thing to her. He probably also doesn't want any kids, so no I don't see it working out. He will trade her in on a newer model too. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-11-03 11:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it won't last. He was bored with his relationship and wanted some excitement from a girl half his age. When she's also 42, if not before, he will get bored with her too.
2006-11-02 21:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It sounds like he's one of those dudes who wants to feel younger by dating younger ladies. He just turned his back on 24 yrs of marriage like it was a 24 hr night stand? He's confused and is in his "experimental" stages. He's trying to figure out what's what.
2006-11-02 21:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Muffin Cakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it wont work especially if he shows no remorse for what he did with his wife of 24 years. She must be near the age of his kids don't you think that's kinda gross?! How can he show love honor and compassion with a woman he just met if he can't even do it with his own wife...the woman who gave him 4 kids?
2006-11-02 21:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by littlemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a fling....mid life crisis for him..once the wife finds out..and kicks him out broke and needy the young lady will dump him as well because he will not have money to help out..sex is not enough..
2006-11-02 21:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if they feel they have Chemistry between them but if theres no sparks between both of them then probley not
2006-11-02 21:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by bearcatz_07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋