after my dad and mom got divorced my dad got remarried and i have a stepbrother we do not live together but we go to the same school i am a junior and he is a sophmore people at school say that he smells and that he doesnt take showers
i love my stepbrother how can i get people to stop being mean to him?
2006-11-02 13:19:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
help him out....tell him what people are saying and tell him you'll help him be more positivily noticeable to girls.
2006-11-02 13:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he really smell and not take many showers? If so, then I would talk to your brother and give him some advice about what he should do. Maybe tell him that in the morning he should take a shower and put some cologne on so people won't say he smells. Even if he doesn't think he does still tell him that he should to prove to people that he doesn't. If you know that he doesn't stink and people are just saying that to be mean then I would stick up for him, especially if these are your friends that are saying this. Who knows, maybe you could tell people some cool stuff about him to change their opinion.
2006-11-02 13:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they keep saying that, just stick up for him. I have a stepsister and sometimes our neighbors are being mean to her and calling her a baby. So what i do is just tell them that you just can't stand them name calling them. If they are sophmores too then just say: " Your know what, even if im a junior and my brother is a sophmore i still care about him and you should feel bad for doing that. What if you had a brother that people made fun of, and you love him, what would you do? and then just walk away.
2006-11-02 13:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by hulastar99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he really smell? cos if he does then there's only one thing to do, take a shower.
You can always scold those people who are mean to him but that will probably just worsen things up.
Buy him a deodorant, or perfume or whatever that can get rid of the smell.
Hmm..you do care about him, do you? The world needs more people like you.
2006-11-02 13:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by aLTered_eGo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just try to to think about how to het people to stop...
#1.is anyone of those people your friends
#2.do you know any of them
#3.just stick up for him tell people to back off of him, and that hes a really cool guy and to get to know him
#4.see if he really does stink, and try to make him smell better
ithink my ideas will work
2006-11-02 13:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by Muh-Kay-Luh cArTeR :]] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a talk with your stepbrother and tell him what they are saying about him, and hopefully he will do something about it..i know how it feels for people to talk about someone you love..what they are doing to your brother they would do to you if you had this problem believe me.
2006-11-02 13:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to him and explain why it is important to have good hygiene. If necessary give him a nice kit containing soap, deodorant and some nice cologne.
2006-11-02 13:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and let him know that he made need to shower more. Be there for him while you are in school and never let his self esteem go down let him know that you love him
2006-11-02 13:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might try to pull him aside and nicely let him know what is being said, beyond that there is not much you can do.
2006-11-02 13:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he smells and that he needs to take showers.
I told my co-worker that he needed to trim his nose hair and he was only pissed for a day and then he got over it and cleaned up.
2006-11-02 13:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by happy g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋