please tell me
2006-11-02 13:14:44 · 22 answers · asked by lily pad fat =( 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, a lot of men prefer a woman who is short and heavy, especially if they have a great personality.
2006-11-02 13:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They certainly can, well at least those smart guys who are really hard to find, because there are not many of them out there. Love is not about the physical appearance of a person, love comes from within the heart. Love doesn't see age, color, race, weight, height, or things like that. Don't worry too much, your true love will someday come your way. Someone who will love you for your personality, for who you are. When you do find your soul mate, hold on and never let him go. Please don't let anyone ever put you down because of your physical appearance, what matters the most is your inner beauty.
"Love is always patient and kind..."
Love is always patient and kind; it is never jealous. Love
is never boastful or conceited...
It is never rude or selfish...It does not take offense, and it
is not resentful.
Love takes no pleasure in other people's sins but
delights in truth. It is always ready to excuse, to trust, to
hope, and to endure whatever comes.
~1 Corinthians 13:4-8
When you do end up finding true love you will understand this! I wish you the best and please don't let people tell you you are not beautiful, because i'm pretty sure you are!
2006-11-02 13:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by lady butterfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES. But ONLY if the guy fell in love with the girl when she was short and petite.
I know that sounds brutally shallow, but the that is the nature of man, and you must live with it. You could be the smartest, nicest, most talented person in the world, but the only guys that are going to go for a fat chick (and fall in love with her) is AFTER he has exhausted all other options.
You may think there is hope because you see so many HUUGE women with husbands/boyfriends/kids, but don't be fooled. These fat girls bagged their men when they were hot as hell and skinny as a rail.
What it boils down to is this: You have a choice - either settle for the last losers left, or lose some damn weight.
2006-11-02 13:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course any guy can love a women to fat and short heck my freind married a woman who was like that and its not bout looks its the inside even me im dating a woman who isnt the prettiest or sexiest she is 5'9 and wieghs 180 and i love alot.. If the guy was really kind he would on the inside of you and not the body
2006-11-02 13:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by Sean S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, you poor thing. Yes, they really can, I know this for a fact because my bus driver is married and she isn't exactly what you would say thin. And I doubt that you are very fat, and there are some perks to being short! Don't be crushed! What everyone says but doesn't really do, is they say that it's personality that counts, and that is TRUE! Listen to YOUR heart....... and... my advice, and you will have no confidence trouble
2006-11-02 13:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by peace ♥ music 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are guys who love all different types of women. What you need to understand is that physical appearance is NOT the only thing that matters in love.
2006-11-02 13:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by cutebastardette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the guy above. Guys love women of all different shapes and sizes. For example my hot guy friend goes out with people of different sizes and treats them with repect. Its like how girls like all different kinds of guys. Trust me I am part of the short club also(5feet and a quarter). Have more confidence and show more personality, guys see that more than they see your waist line.
2006-11-02 13:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite possible, if he sees the inner character instead of the physical outlook, another possible reason could be the guy himself is fat and short....
2006-11-02 13:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by jollywell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because love ignores all of that and sees the beauty within the person.
2006-11-02 13:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by Steven Fenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality is most important, most guys see past the personality and go for looks only, when u find a man that sees this and stays wit u, then u have found someone that luvs u and deserves u
2006-11-02 13:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋