when I asked her out, she says "sure maybe we can sometime, not sure when, but I'll let you know".
Is that rejection?
2006-11-02 13:10:00 · 16 answers · asked by pure_west102 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I ment asked her out on a date.
2006-11-02 13:20:42 · update #1
Um, yeah I think so. But at least she likes you enough to say it tactfully.
2006-11-02 13:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by shortcake 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"asked her out" can have different meanings depending on what region you are from so...
If you mean on a date: In my opinion no it is not, if those were her words she's being sencere, more then likely she's a very busy girl and does not want to set a date if she can not keep it. I hope you two have a wonderful date.
If you mean you asked her out as in to be your girlfriend then she was obviously mocking you. So sorry, she is not worth you're time.
2006-11-02 21:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kianha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not neccessarily rejection, all depends on her personality. I'm a goody two shoes who tries not to offend people, but I say "no" when I hate a person. Has she ever said "no" to people before? Does she ever show signs of liking you? Did the excuse sound plausible? Don't dwell on it too much.
2006-11-02 21:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yup, the indefiniteness is a dead giveaway. Wants to be nice but leave things totally open. Unless she actually gets in touch later, but I would NOT hold my breath!
2006-11-02 21:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. she said that she`ll let you know. maybe she`s just super busy. try waiting for a week or two, if she doesn`t bring it up then she might not be interested. or she just wants to seem like she`s booked. good luck ! =]
2006-11-02 21:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it to me, see if you hear form her in the next couple of weeks. If you don't than it is rejection.
2006-11-02 21:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by Michael S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. It just means that she is busy. Maybe with another man maybe with work. But I don't think so. Wait, if she isn't worth it than just move on. Don't wait too long (I'd say 1 week!) and then don't nail her when she calls you back.
2006-11-02 21:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, unfortunately.
2006-11-02 21:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by jblonde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its more of a maybe or a subtle rejection as opposed to her just sayin no flat out....um.......depends of if she gets back to u or not....because that kind of maybe statement could swing either way.....
2006-11-02 21:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is being polite... If you don't hear back within a week, concider it a polite rejection.
2006-11-02 21:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by shepherd169 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋