What should a gurl do when she loves one person but has feelings for another?
Ok, I have been married for almost 11 yrs. I love my hubby. But I have strong feelings for someone else.
What should I do?
2006-11-02 13:02:56 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-11-02 13:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Cobra 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you love your husband desperately enough to be committed to him without fooling around with another than I think you should focus on your husband and change some things so you both can satisfy each other. Sex talk to your husband. Do things with your husband that both have never done before. There is always a 1st for all.
Good luck and I hope you make a wise decision on this.
2006-11-02 21:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by StaR'in 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its better to stay with your husband. Think about everything you guys have been through together. You don't really know how this other person will turn out to be in time. Time changes people, some for worse, some for better.
2006-11-02 21:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by Hicktown girl66 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give up 11 years for feelings. that's up to you. you put yourself in that situation. If you love your hubby then love him and only him, if not well then you know what to do.
2006-11-02 22:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by rjl2382 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you have children? Is he abusive? there are many factors involved. If he is a good husband and father, please know that this infatuation must be cut right away. Your husband doesn't need to know just don't take it any further and cut all ties and pray for deliverance from those emotions. God bless.
2006-11-02 21:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by LIVINGmylife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who do u love more your hubby or the other one you will have to decide between them one or the other
2006-11-02 21:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love the one your with if he is a good man and u obviously love him dont betray him.
2006-11-02 22:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i could be real mean here , but refuse to do so. curiousity hits everyone i guess an you are no exception to the rule. but you should be devoted enough to your husband ,that
that curiousity will go no farther.
2006-11-02 21:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cut it off the temptation is to great so completely cut it off then put all that pent up energy into to making it VERY HOT with your husband
2006-11-02 21:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the answer is...........you dont truly love your husband, get real with yourself and let him go find someone that will love only him!
2006-11-02 21:13:03 · answer #10 · answered by mouse3801 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋