I started to like this best friend of mine three months ago. Finally I decided to ask her out. Today I was talking to a best friend of ours on the phone, and I was told that her (the girl I like) friend told her about this guy who liked her, so she got excited and gave it a try, but ended up separated because the guy was being non-Christian-like. Since she has suffered from it once, I'm not sure if she'll have the same reaction to me when I tell her I like her that way. Is she still willing to give it a try? Any help is appreciated!
2006-11-02 13:08:08 · 9 answers · asked by yaoliu89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some confusion on what you wrote...did you ask her out or didn't you ?
Ok if you didn't ask her out...
It all depends If she is really down in the dumps about what happened and if so now would be the best time to ONLY be a best friend. If you can reason with the head on your shoulders and truly be a friend first she might just see that you are different than the other guys.
Tell her only once that you're really mad at what happened and that guy was a real jerk for what he did and that she deserves much better. After wards if she wants to talk about it she Will but don't keep mentioning it if she doesn't. Always try to make her laugh and be happy.
If she is shy and understands that you are special she will probably tell her best GF first and maybe even tell you dierectly that she likes you more than just a friend. At this point then you can tell her about your feelings towards her and ask her out but If time goes by and she doesn't say anything than you have to make the move !
I hope that helps
Good luck
Ciao
2006-11-02 13:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by frankiedreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out but be truthful with her from the start. When you say best friend are you close friends? if so be careful to not spoil your friendship. Personally I never dated anyone I was close friends with there are to many girls in the world to take a chance on spoiling a friendship.
2006-11-02 21:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo I think you should give it a try because you mite not get a nother chance like this,besides she mit like you the same way but is just shy.PS Take care of her and love her or you mite loss her
2006-11-02 21:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dontrel B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what this guy did that was "un-Christian-like". Be sure not to do the same and take things slow, and things will go OK.
2006-11-02 21:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
granted the lady will be a bit cautious at first. I would just come out and blurt it out. Take is nice and easy w/her, be there as a friend first. When she is ready, you will be the first to know.
2006-11-02 21:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by matthew p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must think of your friendship with her first. If you feel that strongly about it then you should at least talk with her about it to see what she says. You'll never know unless you ask otherwise you'll be driving yourself crazy about it.
2006-11-02 21:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should try it
wut haff u got 2 loose? right?
good luk :]
2006-11-02 21:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thet you should follow your heart and ask her out.
2006-11-02 21:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by Dannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her you go for it
2006-11-02 21:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by nobleicus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋