when he isn't drinking he is wonderful,very dependable,wonderful provider,very affectionate,caring and sweet..when he is drinking and has had 7 beers or more he starts being an ***..he says the most horrible things to me,and has even cheated on me twice that i know of and has blamed both occassions on being too intoxicated..he has tried quiting,and does well but then gets to thinking because he can quit for several months at a time he has no problem if he can quit when he wants and then he starts drinking a little at a time,,1 or 2 here and there,,then a few more gradually until he is drinking at least a 6 pk every night.and it never fails as soon as it reaches the every night mark he starts getting very short and nasty with me,he doesn't care what he does or says when he is like this...i have left twice but keep coming back...am i stupid for staying and hoping that he will seek real help for his obvious problem?i love him,,,but is my love blind and setting me up for more disapointment
2006-11-01
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