I am 12 almost 13 and my boyfriend is taking our relationship a little too far such as: he is sticking his hand up my skirt and talking about making out when we just started going out. Please Help!
2006-11-01 11:00:10 · 17 answers · asked by little_demon_l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is toldally wasting ur time and is taking advantage of u trust me i am 13 and have been in the same sitchuation
2006-11-01 11:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to deal with a relationship. Especially one where your boyfriend is trying to do stuff you're not comfortable with or ready for. How old is your boyfriend? If he's your age maybe a year older, his hormones are WAY too much for him to handle, and he's trying to move WAY too fast especially for kids your age. If he's a good bit older than you, like 15,16 or so, he's too old for you for one thing, and his hormones should be under control. He just doesn't WANT to control them. I never try to assume ages where only one or neither one is mentioned. He needs to back off. Truthfully, you need to wait until you're at least 16 before you try to be in a relationship. You can say you have a boyfriend, but hang out with him and your friends at the same time. Being in a room alone with a teenage boy, no matter what age, is, in his mind, giving him a sign that you want to do something you don't want your parents to know about or see. Stay in a group, whether it's a group of friends, or you, him and your parents or his parents need to stay in the same room. Never go into a bedroom whether you're in a group or not. The best thing to do is dump him. He's trying to pressure you into something, and he's not taking no for an answer. He's not the right boy for you. If you insist on having a boyfriend, find a boy who isn't going to pressure you, and you still need to stay in a group. That's the best bet.
2006-11-01 19:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by viva_bamm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no right to stick his hand up your skirt. Do you stop him when he does that? You need to. Please talk to him. Next time he tries to do that grab his hand and say no. If he doesn't listen, get up and leave. No man has the right to touch you if you don't want to be touched.
If he is a good guy, the kind you want to be with, he will respect you and your friendship and wont do it again. If he doesn't, dont be his friend and be thankful you were smart enough to say no and not let him use you for your body. Be strong hunny, and everything will be fine.
2006-11-01 19:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that he needs to slow down and that you should get to know each other better before you do anything serious, and 12 almost 13 is to early for him to stick his hand up your shirt.
2006-11-01 19:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl!!! You need to stay away from him. You are not ready. Don't worry about waiting. Men will never die out. Most guys like these leave you after a short time, whether or not you give them what they want. So, its best if you stay on the better side. It's either you dump him or tell him to slow down.
2006-11-01 19:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by Question 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tape a rat trap to your leg!
Just kidding! Ask him to respect your boundaries and go a little slower, or you guys won't be dating long. Remind him that you are only 12, and that you don't want to have a sexual relationship with anyone yet because you are A CHILD (no offense).
Please don't be pressured. Their is plenty of time to fool around with other men :)
2006-11-01 19:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by ValentineP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap the living crap out of him. He's in heat and you need to put out his fire really quick. Dont let him do anything that youre not comfortable having him do. If he cant respect your feelings...........dump his sorry horny butt. Find a nice boy that will treat you with respect.
Good luck.
2006-11-01 19:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are a little young to be doing that kinda of stuff. If you tell him "no" and he doesn't listen, he isn't respecting you and you should leave him for someone who will treat you right.
2006-11-01 19:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by luv_dec21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much too fast is never a good thing. respect yourself and make sure he respects you too. if he can't, well you deserve better. you have your whole life ahead of you. give yourself time. enjoy your youth. you're only young once so cherish it. don't force yourself grow up too fast, and don't allow anyone to force you to either. stand up for yourself to him.
2006-11-01 19:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by LennyWenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel uncomfortable than thats not the guy for u.besides ur young to be thinking about that stuff.
2006-11-01 19:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋