I'm male and so is my friend and I like his sister but him and his sister are close how do I approach this?
2006-11-01 10:57:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of all be Honest with your boy, don't try to sneak and date his sister, thats not cool.
Let him know that you are feeling her and you respect him, so you wanted to talk to him about it before you made a move.
And depending on his answer, you then decide how to move forward.
It really matters how much he means to you, if he is your real homey and he doesn't want you to date his sister, you really have to respect that and find someone else just as appealing to you.
Or if he isn't trippin then its a Win for you, but keeping him out of your relationship might be kind of difficult because of how close you and he are and well she's his sister so there is definitely going to be some exchange there.
You also need to consider how having his sister as a girlfriend, may alter your Hanging time with him, not to say that he would be jealous or anything, but you just need to make sure that you look at all of the dynamics before you make your full decision.
I really hope that things work out and I hope that this information is at least somewhat helpful to you!
2006-11-01 11:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Just My Thoughts... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is OK to like your friends sister, as long as she is of age, lol. The only problem is your friend might find it a problem because it is his sister. He might start to look at you different, because he knows how you are around females and may think you will do those types of things to her. So just be careful, and don't tell him all or any of you guys business.
2006-11-01 19:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lexie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man i hooked up with my best mates sis, at first he was a bit pissed but when he seen we were happy he chilled. If i were u i would speak to ur friend first and let him know whats going on wit the 2 of u and just be honest and let him know that u dont wanna hurt her.
good luck dude
2006-11-01 19:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Justaguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow well first of all you should ask your Friend first because some brothers have a tough time accepting this kind of situation and ya it is OK but remember everything has its advantages and disadvantages
2006-11-01 19:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by Michell G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your intentions for her are good and you seriously like her than it is OK, but on the other hand if you are just attracted to her physically then it isn't a good idea to mess around with your friends sister
2006-11-01 19:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just tell him that u think that his sister looks aight would it ever bother u if i was to ask her out. Get the answer and then take it form there!
2006-11-01 19:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it's okay! Ask your friend if he would mind you asking his sister out and then get him to find out if she likes you....the two of them being close can work to your advantage!
2006-11-01 18:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask him if its all right with him and if hes cool with it then go ahead. Just remember two things:
1.) don't ever do anything that will hurt her physically and try your best to not hurt her emotionally, and
2.) never ask him questions about her. like what she likes to do, or eat, or what shes thinking. Don't act like your dating his sister when your around him.
2006-11-01 19:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by bartathalon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just say...I've been watching your sister and she seems nice I'm going to ask her out....I just wanted to let you know.
It may not be OK with him because he may be protective. In that case you'll have to decide how much his friendship means to you.
2006-11-01 19:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on her brothers opinion of you!!! loll i NEVER NEVER NEVER date within my circle of friends because if the relationship goes bad so does the friendship in most cases talk to your friend and see what he says,if you two are meant to be together it will happen and if anyone has a problem with it they will get over it in time so good luck to you 3!
2006-11-01 19:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by @ubreY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋