Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

ok me and one of my guy friends are going to go eat dinner tonite, but i feel like if my bf or any of his friends were to see me they might think im cheating on him but im not because we are only friends, we have never done anything past being just friends, but my bf has never met this guy so im wondering if its ok or if it will look bad, but on the other hand my bf has been distant from me lately and doesnt even call, when i call him he says hes busy and has to hang up and call later. so what do u think?

2006-11-01 11:50:04 · 14 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I have had a problem with a man I know staring at me for about 2yrs(my 11yr old son has even commented on the way this man watches me) In the past i have asked him if he has feelings for me but he has denied it, yet he continues to stare at me. A few weeks ago, i got fed up and emailed a confronting letter to him, addressing the way he looks at me and his obvious denial of feelings for me. I thought i would get a attack back, but nothing at all. Last weekend, I saw him at a concert(he was on stage performing) he saw me in the audience and looked straight at me and kept smiling( i would have thought my confronting email would turn him off, I couldn't beleive it, what does he want from me? I have been trying to resolve this for ages and it's not working, only doing my head in. What is his problem, maybe a weird obsession, I don't know? Any suggestions?

2006-11-01 11:48:40 · 14 answers · asked by charmed one 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 11:48:08 · 14 answers · asked by Paris M 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean i know there just trying to take care of me and make sure nothing happens to me but i mean over the summer we went camping and i had to go to the bathroom and i mean it wasn't that from where we were camping and my dad ask do you want me to go with you and i mean it want far at all and today i was going to go walking and i told my mom before i was going to go and she said i couldn't go and walk & all the time i ride my bike and every thing all the time and then she says i can't go idk i mean i'm just getting tired of it i mean i old enough to make my own decision and make my own mistake i think sometimes when i was little i had more freedom then i do know!! most the time the one fussing at me is my mom and i don't even do anything idk its a really long story i can't write it all but i still love them its just getting on my nerves..

2006-11-01 11:47:13 · 11 answers · asked by Dipstick 1 in Family

How can you tell that he likes you by the way that he acts around you?

2006-11-01 11:47:07 · 21 answers · asked by Tempest6768 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this neighbor who is moving today. I go outside to say my goodbye at him at the moving truck, but he said he wants to come over to my apartment later to personally say goodbye. Granted we have been flirting with eachother for about 6 months. Why couldn't he just say goodbye to me when I went outside and saw him moving his stuff? Do you think he wants to give me more than a verbal goodbye?

2006-11-01 11:47:02 · 9 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

He sometimes seems even depressed. We once liked each other, but we are better just being friends. Does our friendship have anything to do with him not getting girls? U know, because his best friend is a girl. I just don't know how to help him. I want to so badly though because I hate to see him so sad.

2006-11-01 11:46:34 · 8 answers · asked by Kara R 2 in Friends

I met this great guy about 4 months ago & sensed he was nursing a broken heart but decided to take a chance because he was a genuinely decent guy. It started off casual & in time he made mention of things he wanted to do together next year & from now on, etc. I read those things to mean that he felt safe about something beyond the casual realtionship we had. I tried to slowly over a course of 3-4 weeks get him to open up more to me & open myself up to him. Nothing! So instead of assuming that he would get it, I told him I wanted him to open up to me. He broke it off with me. He said that even though no one else had ever treated him as well as I had & he had true feelings for me, he didn't see me as someone he'd spend the rest of his life with. Why was that in the equation of a casual relationship & how would he know that without taking the time to get to know me? Am I right that he is just afraid to love again & running? Was it too soon to ask him to open up to me? I'm so confused.

2006-11-01 11:45:47 · 8 answers · asked by PisceKween 2 in Singles & Dating

Right now I feel sad, today I acted like a w _ _ _ _ but of course I'm not that, I'm just so crazy about him

2006-11-01 11:45:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I saw my exboyfriend (over a year ago) and his girlfriend in my dream. I called my ex over to talk. He left his girlfriend to come talk to me. Then, his girlfriend came running after us and joined in on the conversation.But then something really weird happen. She had her hands all over him. She had the smallest hands ever! (She is really tall in real life, same height as him, maybe taller..) Anyway, it was really strange but it felt great in my dream. His girlfriend told me to listen to my ex's heartbeat. I was like "what?" when she said that in my dream. Then she took my hand and put it on his heart. She asked "can you feel it?It's beating like crazy right?" I then, put my head on his heart to listen to his heart beat. It was beating normal at first and then it started beating fast...really really fast. It felt so real. I actually heard and felt his heartbeat, I am not joking-and then I woke up.

2006-11-01 11:41:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 11:41:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Two things...thing 1: I need help deciding what to major in. I love sports and I could always teach. Should I take a chance on business and try to become the GM of a sports team or should I stay safe and teach something?

thing 2: There's a girl I went to high school with that has the same class I have (music apprec.) right after me. she graduated a year ahead of me in hs and i sorta like her. We're required to go to a concert (not the fun kind) and I asked her to go with me b/c we both have to go anyway. she accepted but I havnt seen her in about a week since I asked her, so I havnt had a chance to work out details. Is her sudden absence just coincidence? Btw, this girl is really hot and way out of my league, but she did agree to go,so that was good. Advice please.

2006-11-01 11:41:48 · 7 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Singles & Dating

i like to love, but is love enough? marriage is forever through death do we part

2006-11-01 11:41:27 · 12 answers · asked by flippling flishy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently married and am now experiencing the drama my new family so carefully hide before I married. My wife is the type of person who bites her tongue when a particular aunt expressess her unwated opinion. Her aunt is very hard headed and often hurts the feelings of other family members due to her beliefs. The petty arguments/ rumors that she starts finally involved me and im not the type of person to avoid speaking up. My wife as well as I do not want a fight with this aunt but do want to express our (My) feelings to hopefully show her aunt the hurt she inflicts. Is this possible and how?

2006-11-01 11:40:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

fair skinned
litgh freckles
braces but bout to get um off
emerald collored eyes
dirty blonde hair
5'3 5'4

2006-11-01 11:39:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife wanted me to sign over the house and give it to her
for alot less than what I paid for my half & lot less than what it is worth now. Long story- but this is what she wants. I still love
her - b/c we had been married 12 years- but she never wanted to
give in her demands for the house or settle somewhat. So, for
10-11 months we have lived apart and moved on independently.
I recently began talking to her -and we had spent some time
togetehr-kiss and hugged but no sex.But my wife is still
unwilling to compromise in the house issue Should I feel
guilty about going on a 2nd date or dating other women-because
my wife has not given me any indication she wants to truly
be with me. I feel guilty about dating only because i am very
devoted-but at the same time- I can't put my life on
hold forever for someone that does nopt want to commit to being
with me for the long haul- I should be more important than any
house !

2006-11-01 11:39:27 · 15 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 11:38:54 · 3 answers · asked by lilmama080989 1 in Singles & Dating

I've just found out the foreign girl I was seeing was engaged. I've dumped her but now I'm wondering why she did it?

2006-11-01 11:38:33 · 16 answers · asked by Boon Tan 3 in Singles & Dating

Many people claim that they are not shallow... but most of these then prove that they are. A lot of women have told me that they care only about the personality, only to see them rejecting perfectly sane, but ugly, guys.
Heck, I had a lot of female friends with wonderful personalities, but the two women I only felt in love with were really beautiful. I never fell in love for a girl considered "ugly". Am I shallow?

Studies have shown that the tallest and "prettiest" people always get the most jobs, even against ugly people more qualified than them, and even in cases of men hiring men and women hiring women. (thus proving that's not just a sexual thing).
Heck, you need look no further than celebrities. Why do they make millions while others have to slave their lives away for a miserable income?

Is our society really shallow? How shallow?
Are *you* shallow? Why? Why not?

2006-11-01 11:37:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How is your relationship with them now (specify your age)? I'm 19 and my mother (who is alcoholic) is doing a lot of work in therapy and hasn't been drinking for a little while (maybe a month or so). She was sober for a few years in the past, but then relapsed. She is now trying really hard, and knowing that she is really making an effort has helped our relationship mend a little, but it is really hard to deal with loving and hating someone so much at the same time. I have also been in therapy about this, which has helped. I guess I'm just wondering if anyone successfully had a good relationship with a parent whose alcoholism caused them a lot of emotional trouble as they were growing up. And, how did you get past constantly worrying about them relapsing again?

Thanks in advance for any responses!

2006-11-01 11:37:20 · 8 answers · asked by butwhatdoiknow 4 in Family

we have been dating seriously for over 6 mos. he does not need anything and if he wants something ,he buys it. i do not have a lot of money, which he is aware of, but i want the day to be special and let him know he's loved.

2006-11-01 11:37:13 · 6 answers · asked by jordan 2 in Singles & Dating

How come when a guy asks a sex question he is a perv and when a woman does it she is empowered??

2006-11-01 11:36:58 · 13 answers · asked by postalclerkgso 3 in Singles & Dating

me and him are really close he knows i like him and he is single but i dont know how 2 ask him out (should i wait for him to ask me or should i start)

2006-11-01 11:36:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm 12 almost 13

me and this boy really like each other and we tried going out but it just didn't work out so we flirt all the time and do sometimes more then just kiss... not as far as bed but if you know what i mean... is that weird?

2006-11-01 11:36:41 · 4 answers · asked by karen 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this neighbor who is moving today. I go outside to say my goodbye at him at the moving truck, but he said he wants to come over to my apartment later to personally say goodbye. Granted we have been flirting with eachother for about 6 months. Why couldn't he just say goodbye to me when I went outside and saw him moving is stuff? Do you think he wants to give me more than a verbal goodbye?

2006-11-01 11:36:37 · 2 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

reason been for the past five month i have been playing pregnant and i think it is getting out of controll.plzzzzz give me some idea on how to go about telling him.

2006-11-01 11:35:58 · 16 answers · asked by kay j 1 in Friends

2006-11-01 11:35:57 · 2 answers · asked by mel 1 in Singles & Dating

If you want a true relationship in your life we will have to become one. Define that

2006-11-01 11:35:44 · 9 answers · asked by Dori 2 in Weddings

We used to talk alot before school started now ,we don't say anything in tha hallway.And I think he's talking to this new girl Sherri.And I just started my new school .

2006-11-01 11:34:41 · 5 answers · asked by Babez 2 in Friends

2006-11-01 11:33:59 · 22 answers · asked by maddy 3 in Singles & Dating