i'm 12 almost 13
me and this boy really like each other and we tried going out but it just didn't work out so we flirt all the time and do sometimes more then just kiss... not as far as bed but if you know what i mean... is that weird?
2006-11-01 11:36:41 · 4 answers · asked by karen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not weird, its just you may end up hurt. your young and you might start thinking its love and teenage boys just want to get down. when he finds someone else to kiss and you're ok with it thats what you call friends with benefits but if you get jealous, hurt etc... Wait a minute, i can just see you getting hurt so please stop. it will only lead to heartache and first relationships most of the time lead the way to how future relationships will be. end it now
2006-11-01 11:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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It is not weird, it is common.
It is NOT wise.
Your relationship is built on a foundaton of "sexual attraction" only. It won't last long-term, one of you will tire of the other,
and then move on to the next "sex-object";
AND you are in danger of getting STD from a non-committed relationship.
If you want more in a relationship
you won't ever get it by putting "sexual attraction" first. That is only 20% of what a long-term relationship is built on.
If you want a long-term relationship
you will need to get a guys resepect;
and you must respect yourself FIRST
before you can expect a guy to respect you.
Show a guy WHO you are beyond a sex-object. If he finds you interesting, fun, open, and great to go out with; he'll wait for the sex; and be happy with you.
Will a guy you make wait leave you?
Only the player type will leave looking for easy meat.
Genuine guys will be enchanted, and they will stay, even without sex. They will enjoy getting to know the real you first.
I wish you love
stw
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2006-11-01 11:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits almost never works. People's feelings get involved and people get hurt. If you're willing to risk your feelings do so, but watch out.
2006-11-01 11:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh yea... lol
im the same age im turning 13 in January... please dont try sex... its not good when ure only 13
2006-11-01 11:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by xsolast_summerx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋