I've just found out the foreign girl I was seeing was engaged. I've dumped her but now I'm wondering why she did it?
2006-11-01 11:38:33 · 16 answers · asked by Boon Tan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stupid bitchie, as Patrick Bateman used to say....
I reckon she was out to use you. And she's obviously out to use her fiance for something else (money?) - if she truly loved him she wouldn't be cheating on him.
2006-11-01 11:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you keep asking yourself why she did it, you will never be able to start getting on with things. It will eat away at you from the inside and ultimately, not only did she hurt you by doing this to you, she will continually hurt you because your mind will run away with all the wrong kinds of ideas, most of them nonsense.
None of this was you fault, she should have been honest with you from the start by telling you she was engaged.
Not only has she lie to you, she has also lied to her fiance. Would this really be the kind of woman that you would want to spend the rest of your life with?
you will feel like total crap for a while but time does make the pain easier to bare, and in tiome you will meet someone that you deserve to be with and a girl that deserves to have you love her. Somebody who will honestly love and care for you.
Chin up hun, and all the best!
2006-11-01 11:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by Tamerin1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's really low of her.... I think she was bored with her man that she was engaged with, and needed someone that was more interesting for her. So I think she basically used u hon...sorry. Oh well, it is also a complement to if u think about it, ur a fun guy to hang out with! I wouldn't worry about it, find someone new who really likes u and doesn't use u like a play-toy;you'll be much happier that way. Girls like her are total b***hes! Good for you, I'm glad u dumped her! Good luck in the future! Hope I could help! Adios!
2006-11-01 11:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by american_cowgirl_2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she found you too hard to resist?
:)
Actually I have a better answer. Often when we are abroad it feels like we are in a state where we are suspended from our 'real' lives. So we feel we can be ruder, riskier and do things that we would not normally do. So perhaps she felt freer to act on her instincts and decided to go out with you.
Or maybe she is having doubts about her engagement and you will be hearing from her again.
Don't take it too hard in any case, you did the right thing for you by the sounds of it. Don't let it get you down.
2006-11-01 11:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a nice white English girl cause at least you know she not after you to stay in the country.
she might just need to get engaged and then married to stay in the country and if you were not offering that.
Then she might of ended up, looking for her options else where.
2006-11-01 11:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LADIES NIGHT OUT i guess hay look if she is engaged and you were seeing her then she is a sl*t nothing else . She did it cuz she wanted to and you ther one who got hurt . Its called "THE GAME" honey thats it dont spend yo time wondering why she did it .
2006-11-01 11:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by flurtly_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as i would never consider doing that then it seems like she simply wasn't the type of person that you'd want a relationship with anyway so thank your stars someone else has to put up witha cheating fiancee/wife
2006-11-01 11:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by String of pearls 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She must have been bored, and wanted to explore her options. She probably began knowing you as a friend and things went a little unexpected, more than she had probably wanted.
2006-11-01 11:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anna D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Prob. to keep her options open. doesnt mean she didnt care about u. it just means that she didnt have her priorities straight.
2006-11-01 11:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by SamE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
money , ego , passport........who knows, obviously a liar though x
2006-11-01 18:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋