2006-11-01 11:48:08 · 14 answers · asked by Paris M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first off, guys like that are losers and have no balls to tell the ex to piss off! you do not want to enter a relationship with a guy with exccess baggage. i am speaking from personal experience, its messy and it feels like you are constantly competing with the other girl. and there is only one person to blame - the guy. he can easily fix it but he must like girls fighting over him. hes not worth it
2006-11-01 11:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may seem easier said then done , but get flat out ignore her, she is oviously very jealous of what the 2 of you have and she wants to be the woman in his arm instead of it being you, shes trying to coax her way in and push you out so she will have her guy back, if you two really have a thing for each other it wont matter because she wont, if your both just getting started and not sure it could actually work in the grls favor, but if you all hold it together and ignore her and pretend that shes not even in the picture, then you will be fine, remember, love has its obstacles, all you can do is face them head on, good luck!
2006-11-01 11:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by Bridgette ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard situation but you must not pay attention on his ex. She is past and you must both move on and be together. If you will be so touchy that she is around and ruining your relationship then you just not trying hard enough or like each other enough.
I fyou continue just ignore her, she will eventually go away and if it gfoes to extreme like assault bricks through windows etc.then contact the police there will be miles enough evidence for a proper action against her.
Hope it helps, Wolfy.
P>S> Never let ANYTHING stop you from your happiness.
2006-11-01 11:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by lone_wolf_time_to_change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me that he is also allowing her to stick around and has not told her that he has moved on even though she knows you are seeing each other. any attention, speck of time, glance from him at this time will keep her encouraged. sometimes feelings will get hurt, that's life. sounds like he has not been firm enough or really told her in a truly convincing way that it's over. but this is for him to do, not you. she'll leave him alone..... if he really wants her out of his life. is she really in the past? how can she be if he still tolerates and allows her to interfere.
2006-11-01 11:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by justrying2makit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull the ex aside and say "I'm with him now, you both broke up for a reason so stop trying because he will never go back to you when he's got someone like me"... bitchy, I know but it comes off straight to the point & in her face.
2006-11-01 11:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are trying to be together...the ex may not believe it quite yet unless she sees you two together and happy. She's obviously not over him. Hope it doesnt last!! Good luck and peace.
2006-11-01 11:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is coming to the house ask her if she will leave him alone and try too find someone new. If she is calling his phone then ask your boyfriend if it is OK to talk to her and ask her to stop calling, if she does not stop call see if your boyfriend if he would change his number. If she is still calling or bothering you after that then he is still "talking" to her!!!
2006-11-01 11:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lexie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats on her he will cheat on you. Leave him ALONE! LET HER HAVE HIM! You probably don't know all the facts.
2006-11-01 11:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple try to be her friend and if that doesnt work then tell her to get lost and get a life coz hes yours now not hers anymore.
2006-11-01 11:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get his X straight. It's not up to you. If he doesn't want her to bother than he can stop it. The thing is he doesn't want it to stop with his x.
2006-11-01 11:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋