She's in my class. See her 3 times/week. Today was our first time hanging out outside of school. We played badminton and ping pong at the YMCA. She lwas having a good time, laughing and screaming while we were playing. There was some playful touches between us
After we were done, I asked her if she wanted to go bubbletea , she flat out rejected me, saying "No, bubbletea is only for night, plus I'm trying to stay healthy" , then I busted on her for always eating candy during class
We walked back to college, and I teased her some more. Then I asked her if she studied for the upcoming quiz, she said no, and I said "We should meet up on the weekend to study" , to which she rejected me AGAIN saying "I got work", then I was like "Alrite we'll study during the week", to which she replied "ok" with an unenthusiastic response. did i mess up?
my main problem is I dont know if SHE knows that I'm looking at her as relationship material? how do I make it more clear?havent complimented her yet..lol
2006-11-01 10:58:15 · 15 answers · asked by twiztedweb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Although she was clearly flirting with you that is all you are to her if she was interested in you she wouldnt be making all of those excuses so move on my friend and be with someone that will want to spend time with you as you want to spend time with her
2006-11-01 11:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls have an intuition when it comes to guys. We know when a guy thinks of us as relationship material or not. It seems as though maybe she figured this out and got a little scared about it. Or she is simply speaking the truth. She is trying to stay healthy, she has to work. It might be that she just got done playing badminton and is tired (which is why her "ok" sounded unenthusiastic) Also remember, enthusiasm to you, may be different than enthusiasm to her. She may have actually been excited w/out you noticing. Who knows? Just wait it out and see and hope for the best :)
2006-11-01 19:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you seemed to be doing pretty good and i really don't see anything wrong with asking her if she wanted to go get bubbletea. i really don't think u messed up i just think that she has a problem. maybe you could try asking her to be ur g/f after a couple more dates. but if she rejects those dates than i would suggest finding a different girl. oh yeah, try complimenting her, that might help, lol.
2006-11-01 19:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by nba_honey08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should have been more sensitive when she said she was trying to be healthy. You may have hurt her feelings with all the teasing and she was probably trying to let you down easy with all the rejections. Who wants to be around a guy who mocks and teases. Try an apology for what you said and see if she comes around.
2006-11-01 19:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by goaliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teasing her is not a great idea. You would do much better by showing her compassion.
You may not have messed up completely. If you compliment her the next time you see her and spend some time with her, you can show her your sensitive side.
Take care and God Luck,
Troy
2006-11-01 19:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bail out too soon.. hang out with her again & see what happens. If shes not interested in you beyond friendship she'll definitely let you know the second time but rite now its to soon to tell, she could be really interested just a little nervous...give it a little time!
2006-11-01 19:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say u have messed up.. to early to be calling shots.. don't give up. Just be your nice, sweet self, don't push her, she could be easily scared, you might not know what all she has been threw. Be paitent, and a good friend. Friends are harder to come by than a relationship... see ya...write me back.. tell me what u think
2006-11-01 19:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by ashley b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but not all girls are different. Maybe she thinks you are coming on a little too strong so just lay low. Just take your time don't force up on her. Let her come to like you on her own terms.
2006-11-01 19:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by angelfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet up during the week and see how that goes? If you get on really well, you can just leave it at that.
2006-11-01 19:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you upset her with something. try hanging out with her again.. go get another clue. if she hangs out with you then you're a relationship material to her too.
2006-11-01 19:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by wingless angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋