if we dont have sex ever night he finishes his self in his sleep he also told me he has sex with different wemen in his sleep why is he having these fantasys and does it mean im not gopod enough for him or is he going off me
2006-11-01 11:03:30 · 21 answers · asked by HARLUN S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its highly possible. And just 'cos he's fantasising about other women does NOT mean he's going off you: they're merely fantasies. Sure, he might like to have a sexual experience with them, but that desire goes no further than wanting to: and that's in his sub-conscious. He probably doesn't realise he wants to.
You have nothing to worry about. Be happy that he's honest enough to admit it: A LOT of men wouldn;t have the guts, yet, A LOT of mean all feel the same way as your husband.
As for the masturbation during sleep: put it dowen to an extremely high sex drive, and nothing that you're doing wrong.
2006-11-01 11:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ollie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why dont you talk to him some more to find out what this really is all about? I don't think it is odd that he needs sex every day - so does my husband pretty much, and probably yours is younger than mine (mine is 48). So try and have sex with him, or if you really are too tired, why not just 'help' while he masturbates - I don't see any problem with that! Whisper a horny story in his ear perhaps?
I think it is a bit unnecessary of him to tell you about other women that he thinks about. But take the bull by the horns and start fantasizing with him about three-somes etc. It CAN just stay a fantasy.
But the important thing is - talk to him! Let him explore his fantasies with you and he will never want another partner. You've got to keep it interesting for men - they like novelty!
2006-11-01 20:44:52 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wouldnt worry about.
Personally if it was me, I would buy a huge poster of Justin Timberlake and strategically position it on the ceiling right above your fellas side of the bed.
Then I would take a trip to Ann Summers and buy the platinum rampant rabbit, I personally recommend this one.
Go to bed with him and halfway through sex tell him that you are really sorry but you just dont know why you are not in the mood tonight.
Wait about 5 minutes and fake some snoring, just to lead him to believe you are actually asleep.
Reach for the bunny which you should have placed under your pillow and start having fun with yourself. But remembering to act like you are actually doing this in your sleep.
Just before you reach your orgasm, open your eyes, look up and say.ahh uh Jus.t....in, Yeah baby do it to me ...oh yeahhh..
You get the picture. I doubt he will have the balls to say anything, but the following morning, make sure you pack his bags and sling everything he owns out of the door.
Dont be sad, your bunny will always be loyal to you just as long as you buy yourself a huge supply of duracells as hes a hungry lil belter...lol.
Also, your bunny will never cheat on you. lie to you, never finish before you do and never rolls over after sex and wipes itself on your leg!
Have fun girl!!!
2006-11-01 11:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by Tamerin1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey yet boys at that age imagine about sex 24/7. Hormones are raging or perhaps as women are arising crushes, boys are yearning sex. if you're saying no and he says "we can do it whenever you're waiting" then he actual cares about you. yet when he retains asking again and again then he in all likelihood in basic terms needs you for sex. tell him no and that you don't want to and if he asks "Why not?" Say "i'm not waiting." And if he says "ok, possibly over again." he's better for you yet when he says "enable's do it this evening. i appreciate you. enable's do it." Then he in basic terms needs to apply your body. in case you experience him buttering you up by technique of telling you techniques pleasing you're and his lines go alongside like this "you're so pleasing Marina. i appreciate you a lot you're the suitable component it really is ever befell to me. you're so horny it could be effective to confirm you with that good off." you'll experience sorry about it once you've sex with him and he will go away you the subsequent day. you'll awaken and he will be gone and also you may textual content him and he received't reply. i comprehend how those products go. besides, if he cares about you, he will wait. If he doesn't, he will save asking and pressuring you about it.
2016-12-05 10:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who have strong drive get charges every 24 hours and if they dont get it they finish off while sleeping with dreams or whatever. Been through that, after a few months it will be OK
2006-11-02 00:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by Don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun...
No-body does it in there sleep (unless he's a pubescent teenager). Why he cannot fook-off to the bathroom?..... and pretending to be asleep is beyond me!?!
Also he seems a bit of a control freak!!!Saying he's shagging other women in his sleep to keep you giving it to him!! That's not playing nice!
Next time your in bed,before he makes a move, get your R Rabbit out and say " I thought I was asleep!" Then say that you're looking for your G spot....not been found before and thought the Rabbit may help!!!!
The best o' luck to ya babes!!! X
2006-11-01 12:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him kid you, he's not asleep. He's diddling with himself while he's wide awake and then using the excuse that he's asleep.
Masturbation is normal (even in married men) unless it is used as a substitute for a sexual encounter with a significant other. If your partner is satisfying himself through sexual fantasy without engaging in sex with you, then he might have a problem. This condition is termed autoeroticism and it is very difficult to change.
I recommend that you both receive couples counseling. He'll likely refuse to go, but you should go to receive the support you need,
2006-11-01 11:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff N. Florida 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
His head is a bit messed up if you ask me. Are you sure he is asleep? Why he would tell you he is having sex with other women in his fantasy is a bit mean spirited.
Counseling or the curb, let him pick.
2006-11-01 11:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he is asleep? He must have a seriously high sex drive! My husband would never admit to fantasising about someone else, even if he did.
2006-11-01 11:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by wattie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
alot of guys fantasize aboot other women, and in their sleep they have little control over this. but most guys have the decency not to tell their girlfriends. i mean, that's just cruel.
2006-11-01 11:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by merihell75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋