I've been friends with Anntoya since I was in 2nd grade (now a senior) We've become really close over the years and she is like family to me...but in the past year things have been...different. She is not the same bubbly girl I know her to be, she never wants to go out any more, any time I suggest anything that we usually do together she shoots it down, and when I ask her what's wrong she get's mad and yells "Nothing!"
Now any other trick I just would have said "Fu*k you then" and moved around...but we've been friends for 10 years and I refuse to give up on her b/c I love her so much...but she's making me miserable and I dont want to get a phone call saying she killed herself or some sh!t b/c no one would help her....please Im really concerned about her and I dont want our friendship to end!
2006-11-01 11:06:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah, I'm having the same problem, except I'm the depressed one. I have had those same symptoms, like "Nothings Wrong" or no I don't wanna do anything. The problem w/ me though is my friend has been ignoring me and making plans w/ other people in front of me, which has been making me depressed. Try and see if u have been doin those things or somethin like that. Try to talk to her more and make her feel like she fits in and ur like her best friend or somethin. I figures out that my best friend is just tired of me and she wants someone else who pays attention to her basically. But, ya never know. If she says she's tryin to kill herself or somethin, it can't be somethin that u did, cuz that's too serious. I hope I helped!
2006-11-01 11:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by honda_crasher_37 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend may have had something happen to her recently that caused this change in her behavior. If you can't get her to talk you may want to try your school counselor or even her family. They may be able to shed some light on the situation. You are doing the right thing by not abandoning her, just keep watching for signs that she may try to hurt herself, ie: cutting herself with razors, giving away items that are special to her. These are good signs that her depression is deeper then just being sad.
2006-11-01 11:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by goaliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her some professional help. Seek out a councilor at school or talk to one of her parents or even your parents. Could your friend be doing drugs and/or alcohol? She is lucky to have a friend like you, that wants to help her and not abandon her in her time of need. You have to involve more people in your journey. But being a good friend that is a small price to pay for her well being. Pray, have faith and I hope the best out come possible for her! :)
2006-11-01 11:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People with these issues are very difficult to like at times. As a kid there was one in our group that was sort of difficult to motivate, but he usually came around. I think he had depression. Try introducing more people into your friendship, and then phase out if your efforts go on unchanged. Negative people make me tired very quickly.
2006-11-01 11:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously something is wrong, and maybe its something she's too ashamed to talk about. It could be biological, but it could be a real problem.
I would probably tell her you need to talk to her about a problem YOU'RE having, make up the problem if you have to, and see if you can get her to open up to you. If you know what may be bothering her, maybe you can fake a problem like that. People will usually open up if other people open up first.
2006-11-01 11:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by ValentineP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is suffering from depression. You should talk to her parents about it if she is not willing to get help herself. If she doesn't get the help she needs, you may get that phone call saying she killed herself.
2006-11-01 11:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by tollerx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get that phone call, please dont take the blame on yourself, but be a friend, and maybe ask her whats up. why she is unhappy, if you are really good freinds, she may open up. she may have a secret she needs to tell someone about, and doesnt dare. Good luck
2006-11-01 11:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her parents about it, because she may really need some help.
2006-11-01 11:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by geenieinabolla2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋