Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

i just what to know you

2006-10-31 07:17:33 · 30 answers · asked by stopinwork 1 in Singles & Dating

Why so many young women have children with boyfriends? Why don't they get married first? Half the posts in this section seem to be some complication from a relationship like this...

2006-10-31 07:17:27 · 9 answers · asked by Buffy Summers 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-31 07:16:09 · 26 answers · asked by maddogs 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you change????

2006-10-31 07:16:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 07:16:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

people always assume that a man will cheat if his relationship isnt on the goods at that moment?

The reason I ask that is just because everytime i mention something about my relationship and what I am doing...people always respond, girl you betta stop or he may cheat on you. Men dont always result to cheating. In regards to my man, hes a good god damn man...he loves his wifey and would never do that unlike some of the men who has done that to their girly. I just want to know why people dont assume that he is good and just say well talk to him. My baby results to talking or arguing, but cheating isnt in our vocabulary in our relationship. we have been together for almost 2 yrs now and we live together now and been through everything together in this time together. My man is passionate and will still whip a dudes *** for me with no problem just like i would do for him. We are very very very close and dont have any serious problems, so why do people always say he will cheat???

2006-10-31 07:15:15 · 12 answers · asked by yagurlbubblez 3 in Singles & Dating

when you have already given it up to early in a relationship and you feel like its going completely downhill how do you make a man more attracted to you after you feel like he doesnt anymore?

2006-10-31 07:15:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been out with this incredible beautiful woman who says she thinks I am too good looking not to be a player. I am sure she digs me but she is really being difficult to work with. i think she went through some drama with the last cat she was with...

2006-10-31 07:15:12 · 3 answers · asked by DQ 1 in Singles & Dating

So I was with a person for 7.5 years, 1.5 of which were supposedly married - we had a ceremony, but I later got an annulment, which technically means the marriage was null and void from the beginning. Sadly he married me for money and after the Sept. 11 market crash he filed for divorce and asked for half of the money I had inherited when my parents died - oh and yeah - he wanted me to sell my house and live on the street. Great guy huh? What can I say - I knew it all along and shouldnt have agreed to marry him, but I did because of low self esteem and thought I couldnt find anybody better. Word of advice - if you are slugging straight vodka before walking down the aisle, dont do it. So anyway, now when dating someone, what do I say, do I say Im single and never married, do I say Im divorced, do I tell them I just dated someone for 7.5 years (dated 95 - married 2000 he left 2001 annulment finalized 2003)? What do I say?

2006-10-31 07:14:58 · 19 answers · asked by theotherwoman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who has been pretty depressed lately. He lost his mom from cancer when he was in fifth grade (We are both 14 now) and his father has been in jail since he was four. He's been thinking about it a lot lately but yesterday he told me that he was mad at god and that he sometimes thought about giving up and killing himself. How do I explain to him that he can't? He's fine now but if it comes up again I need to tell him something more. I told him that his grandparents and tons of people care about him and would be extremely sad if he did that, especially his dad and he told me that he'd think his dad would kill himself he did commit suicide so I said exactly, you can't do it and he said at least we'd be together! It scared me to death. He promised he wouldn't do anything, but thats because I bursted into tears and I know this conversation is going to come up again tonight and I need help on what to say to him to prove to him that woudl be the stupidest thing he could do.

2006-10-31 07:14:47 · 8 answers · asked by Erin 3 in Friends

ok if a person had a bad childhood and they have a anger problem cause of that they were never showed love until a person that they go with show that to them when ever the person gets mad or want to break up with them they express their feeling call until I dont know when cant sleep eat or think right havent thought of killing theirselves until the person break it with them shakes you to advold hitting you knock on your door until you answer or get home stands up front of you house dont think of nothing but you always around you etc..........IF YOU WANT MORE INFO JUST ASK FOR MORE

2006-10-31 07:14:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you know if you are absoultey happy with someone and know its the person for you???

2006-10-31 07:14:28 · 13 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a relationship w/ a frenchmen years ago. From the relationship a child. My son knows of his biological father. My son is extremely smart, yet I feel he feels the abandonment. Once he cried "He hasn't even tried to contact me". We've moved several time so I say that may be the excuse, although it's not. Do I contact the grandparent and let them know they have a grandchild in the United States. They live in Annecy France and we live in Perryville, Missouri (USA). My son is 15 now, and wants to contact the Dad, but is afraid of rejection. What do I do? How should I advice him? I don't want to ruin a family his biological father may have now. This happened 15 years ago, but I dont want to ignore my sons curiosity? I don't know french can anyone help me?

2006-10-31 07:14:02 · 4 answers · asked by littlejo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 25 years old and have been single for about 2 and a half months... I am having such a hard time finding a guy I'd like to date. I have been told a lot that Im an attractive girl and have a good personality, so I try to believe that. I'm holding out for someone I really click with because I feel like Ive wasted so much time with people Ive felt so-so about. But in the meantime, I hate being single because it gets lonely. I know Im impatient and I just want to meet someone right now. I also always think how much it would suck if I never meet anyone and never get married. I do have a lot of sinlge friends, but still. Is anyone else going through this or am I just crazy?

2006-10-31 07:13:46 · 9 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 07:13:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Though my husband believes that the cute baby I've just given birth to is his, he is clueless that it is his best friend's (my secret lover). Since my lover knows fully that the baby is his, he always sneaks in at the house whenever my husband is not around & sucks my breastmilk along with our child. He says that they (he & the baby) will have a stronger bonding in this way. I confess that I'm so aroused with what he's doing that we ended up making love a couple of times due to his sucking of my breastmilk. I told him that it's enough that he has already one child by me, & that I want to give my hubby a chance also. I'm afraid he may impregnate me again with his breastmilk sucking ways (& where it usually leads to). Anyway, my question is: is this father-child bonding sure to take place with what he's doing? I love my husband & I want him (my hubby) to be the father of my next child, but I'm so horny whenever my lover sucks the milk from my breast.

2006-10-31 07:12:27 · 15 answers · asked by Rose A 1 in Family

Tonight when all the little bastards are tick or treating, I dressed up like a scary sucker, and jumped out of bushes, and take all the candy they drop when they run??? Don't get me wrong, I don't mind kids, but they are little bastards!!! I'm still a little bastard sometimes!!!! but really, would that be cool, or not?

2006-10-31 07:11:44 · 29 answers · asked by jackalope_00 2 in Singles & Dating

i have given him almost everything...things for his car, perfumes, jewelry, clothes, money...i ran out of ideas, doesnt matter how much it cost..any ideas????

2006-10-31 07:10:18 · 7 answers · asked by Gabs 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship for almost 9 months. I wish I could say they have been a wonderful 9 months. Earily on in my relationship I cheated on my girlfriend. I confessed to her because I made a huge mistake. Somehow she found it in her to forgive me. But its been more than 6 months since that happened. She still brings it up on me. What do I do? What do i say? Everyday I regret what happened. I love her and I dont want this to ruin us. please someone help.

2006-10-31 07:09:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do guys tell you they need "them" time, but not in like I wana break up way andthen when you give it to them, they get pissy?

2006-10-31 07:09:45 · 12 answers · asked by chelsea 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do women that brushed you off in the past, come back into your life and reak havoc?

2006-10-31 07:09:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She's very controlling and thinks she's right about everything!

2006-10-31 07:09:36 · 7 answers · asked by Nicole S 1 in Family

My best guy friend has never written me a letter in the 11 yrs i have known him and i have written him over 1000 letters. Well he recently went into a drug re-hab center. He finally wrote me and in this letter he says how much he wants to be with me and how much he loves me. He also says he is tired of being alone and he needs a girl like me who wont leave him when times get rough. He also said he is going to come and get me and my daughter to start a life with us . Well my problem is i told him last december how much in love with him iam. Well i talked to his dad and told his dad we are going to be together and his dad said that he doesnt know if i should believe him cuz he has like 3 other girls on the hook. My question.... is my best guy freind just saying all this? or does he want me? keep in my mind he lives in another state. Please read my "please help hurting" to understand. Also please know he poured his heart and soul into this letter. Do guys go through all that trouble?

2006-10-31 07:09:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever needed to use this and did it work with your children, and did they understand what you were trying to do?

2006-10-31 07:09:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hey! I have been dating a guy for 3 years and I want to get him something special for our anniversary. He loves import cars, street racing, pictures of us, sentimental things he can keep, etc. Is a professional massage a good idea? What can I get him that's kool, thoughtful, but under $75. Keep it tasteful please

2006-10-31 07:08:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 07:08:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so here it goes. two of my friends kissed and the guy had a girl freind. well the girl who was kissed by him ( the one whos not his gf) called and asked 4 advice. i called in other reinforcements and one of them told every one and now it looks like i told every one and the person who told is spreding rumors about me. how should i tell my friends that i was trying to get help not hurt anyones fellings? and how do i tell the now ex gf that i didnt tell her because he wanted to tell her. i was stuck and had to choose between three friends that mean alot to me. was i wrong should i have done something differently? help!!!!!!!!!!! (please?)

2006-10-31 07:08:12 · 4 answers · asked by tianna 2 in Friends

me and my fiance decided that nov.1.2006 or nov.2.2006 was the day we are going to get married and she said that nov 1&2 is a mexican holiday and its like day of the dead -dia de muertos and we were wondering if its okay to get married because she thinks that it might bring bad luck but i dont know and we were wanting to see what people think and maybe it will help us decide but please answer polite and please no rude answers thankyou!!!

2006-10-31 07:08:02 · 21 answers · asked by lopez01_4u 1 in Weddings

2006-10-31 07:07:51 · 10 answers · asked by toussaint d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just hooked up with him to.

2006-10-31 07:07:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating