I just hooked up with him to.
2006-10-31 07:07:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to talk to him ask questions why he wants you to adopt his child thats not normal
2006-10-31 07:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a little crazy. I'd wait till after you were married, or at least planned to get married before doing anything that drastic.
Sounds like his daughter has been through enough drama to have to deal with losing another mother.. if for whatever reason things dont work out.
2006-10-31 15:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by bill m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When do "boys" have daughters? And why would someone you just "hooked" up with want that? This makes no sense.
2006-10-31 15:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa girl. You just started dating? And you want to adopt?
Do you realize that if this relationship don't work, you will be accountable for possibly paying child support to his daughter in the future? I'd advise waiting until him & yourself are commited enough that you are getting married.
2006-10-31 15:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants someone else (you) to get dumped with all the work of raising his child. If you just started going out then he is just using you so he wont have to be responsible. You call him a boy so I assume you arent an adult. Walk away from this guy now, unless of course your prepared to be tied down 24 hours a day taking care of someone elses kid and you have no time for yourself to do anything.
2006-10-31 15:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be here reading this. You should be running away as fast as your feet will fly.
I know one sucker who adopted two and got slammed by life when the other bolted. Don't trip over that rock twice!
2006-10-31 15:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by b4_999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop and think about what you just said (like )a child isnt a puppy you buy you can always sell the puppy its a big step unless you see a marraige i say definetly no ,it could also cause her devastation if you adopted her then split.....
2006-10-31 15:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by Amber j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the rush. If you just started dating you should definately NOT!!! He may be trying to stick you with child support. Don't be so gullible.
2006-10-31 15:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight...he's a BOY and he has a DAUGHTER??? Run like hell...and keep running...
2006-10-31 15:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by david w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound like you're a few bricks shy of a load.
2006-10-31 15:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by ladsmrt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋