ok so here it goes. two of my friends kissed and the guy had a girl freind. well the girl who was kissed by him ( the one whos not his gf) called and asked 4 advice. i called in other reinforcements and one of them told every one and now it looks like i told every one and the person who told is spreding rumors about me. how should i tell my friends that i was trying to get help not hurt anyones fellings? and how do i tell the now ex gf that i didnt tell her because he wanted to tell her. i was stuck and had to choose between three friends that mean alot to me. was i wrong should i have done something differently? help!!!!!!!!!!! (please?)
2006-10-31 07:08:12 · 4 answers · asked by tianna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the thing that you should do is explain the situation that you tried to do. If i was in the same situation i would do this: get each of them to come to your house without them knowing each other person was going to be there. Then when all of them are there, tell them how your feeling and the things that you have wanted to say. If they don't except and want to believe what they did before then **** them they don't deserve to be your friend. You seem like a really nice person that wants everyone to get along in the world, just decide what you need to do. GOOD LUCK
2006-10-31 07:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kidd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sense heavy drama here. Sounds like you're trying to do everyone else's job because you think you can do it better than they can. Let your friends sort out their problems and you do the same. Now that you got caught in a tangled web of he said, she said or didn't say you might need to take a step back and let your friends and their exs get on with their lives while being a true friend a waiting for them to cool down. If they are a good friend to you, then they will come around. If not, they weren't worth it, but remember this before you stick your nose where it doesn't belong. You might want to help, but instead you made things worse.
2006-10-31 07:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon Boy Toy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's up girl I know you is having problems with your friends only thing you have to tell your Friend is you sorry for with happen and tell your Friend you made a mistake and you did not know your friend had a girl friend and you sorry for telling his ex girl friend with happen next time you will try to let him tell her and you will not jump in they conversation you will let him handle that buy going talk to her about with happen I hope I help you out
2006-10-31 07:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by lil boosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh???
2006-10-31 07:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by gangstayubi69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋