I am 25 years old and have been single for about 2 and a half months... I am having such a hard time finding a guy I'd like to date. I have been told a lot that Im an attractive girl and have a good personality, so I try to believe that. I'm holding out for someone I really click with because I feel like Ive wasted so much time with people Ive felt so-so about. But in the meantime, I hate being single because it gets lonely. I know Im impatient and I just want to meet someone right now. I also always think how much it would suck if I never meet anyone and never get married. I do have a lot of sinlge friends, but still. Is anyone else going through this or am I just crazy?
2006-10-31 07:13:46 · 9 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I for one feel that way- I am almost 27 and found someone that I TRULY clicked with... and they just werent ready to be in the relationship as it was headed. I have been married to someone that was all wrong for me- so just be patient, I am sure someone will come along. Be picky about who you choose and be with someone that fits into the qualities you are looking for in a mate- don't ever settle!!!
2006-10-31 07:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Earthy Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check it out i am 25 and in the exact same position i have been told i am pretty attractive. I tend to date right after relationships just to be with someone. Then i make the mistake of trying to make something work that in the end wont. And that just wastes more time. so yeah its an endless circle and it drives me nuts. I totally know what you are feeling and going through and if you get any good answers please let me know because i need an answer as well. I am single now and have the itch to get married before i turn 30
2006-10-31 15:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by LT. DAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I am not in this situation, you are certainly not alone. Just think of it this way...would you rather be in no relationship or a bad relationship? That way, you have made the choice to be single until the right guy comes along...and if he never does...at least you didn't spend your life trying to please the wrong guy. The right person only comes along when you aren't looking.
2006-10-31 15:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't relate with you more. I always tell myself that I will be a lot better to a girl if I am happy by myself. It does suck though,,, being ready for a life, but not really having one. I too have spent a lot of damn time on so-so relationships.
2006-10-31 15:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Tuan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple. If you're not happy with yourself, you can't be happy with somebody else! No guy is going to fill that need, if you're unsure of yourself and that need is always changing. I have a good girl friend going through this stuff right now.....and now, she's on the rebound from not one guy, but two! Its all because she doesn't know how to be comfortable with herself.
2006-10-31 15:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by ka250 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You owe it to yourself to keep yourself occupied. If you're looking for love, you're going to get caught up in the "is it or isn't it" game, and that will only make the situation more stressful. You sound like a great girl and mature, so just hang in there and love will find you.
2006-10-31 15:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
A lot of people in their mid to late twenties feel this way.
Just masturbate a lot and wait for the right guy to come along. He will.
2006-10-31 15:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go out be yourself and have fun. You will run into someone. play safe and good luck
2006-10-31 15:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come here and let me give you a hug.
2006-10-31 15:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by just1more 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋