Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

I got a new boss about 7 months ago. I tried to not like her so I wouldn't have any feelings for her because I was very attracted to her on all levels. The past few weeks I have stopped trying to dislike her and now I can't stop thinking about her. My wife keeps asking me what's wrong. I don't know what to do. I feel so guilty because all the time i'm around my wife i'm only thinking of this woman.
I think that my boss might like me but i'm not really sure.
I'm married, she's my boss, she's 9 years older than me and is recently a single mom. Obviously that would never work.
But i try to convince myself it would.
I've been married 2.5 years and have never ever had any feelings like this. And it is more than just a lust thing, i love just talking to her and hanging out with her. Help!!!!!!

2006-10-31 07:30:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The wedding is in Yorkshire, UK

2006-10-31 07:30:02 · 9 answers · asked by question_dock 1 in Weddings

Since I believe i was the one who really wanted to get marreid? He said eventually he was going to marry me? And he is happy about it. His mind was set for me all this time. What is that mean?

2006-10-31 07:29:47 · 1 answers · asked by Fantasy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a guy who i was dating asked me to marry him, i said yes but i'm am having very strong second thoughts!
what do i do? help!

2006-10-31 07:29:39 · 10 answers · asked by Erikawithasmile 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Bad taste comments I mean...

2006-10-31 07:29:36 · 7 answers · asked by be 1 in Marriage & Divorce

on saturday night i was out with the girls, wen i was alone this lad came up to me and said he had liked me for 3month or so and asked if he could take me out.
i agreed and he has been texting me but 2nite he said the first time he saw me he thought jesus who is that girl that has been hit with a ugly stick.
what is going on why does he wanna take me out if he thought this????

2006-10-31 07:29:08 · 9 answers · asked by peglit_1234 1 in Singles & Dating

ok what are good signs to look for if you suspect something is different in the relationship, i always look when i go to his house but i dont know what to really look for, there isnt anything, also whats a good way to spy on them without getting caught, i mean all i can think of is sit outside the house parked but then id need a different car... help!

2006-10-31 07:29:08 · 9 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Singles & Dating

Dad left and it was not in very good terms. Him and mum always argue about me ever since. Dad wanna be happy, my mum is so hurt. What do I do?

2006-10-31 07:28:31 · 11 answers · asked by Mex d'or 2 in Family

2006-10-31 07:28:04 · 16 answers · asked by scot_pix 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and you get sick of your sex life would you cheat or have an affair honestly if the opportunity was good no chance of getting caught

2006-10-31 07:28:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

help? ma girlfriend is a bartender,she love to flirt even went visiting her at the bar... ( she even give her # to everyone that think she is hot or cute) she even told me once that a guy told her that she was his idol after flirting and giving him her #......am i stupid or is it drama...

2006-10-31 07:27:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 07:27:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok so my bf of 1 year just seems less interested in me, I cant tell if he is cheating or just not interested in me but then I dont get why he wouldnt just leave me if he didnt like me, He used to always say he would never leave, so maybe do you think he doesnt want to hurt my feelings, ok well the thing is that when i text him last nite around 10 and said goodnite, have a good day tomorrow and i love you, he didnt write back, an hour later i was so upset i wrote are you sleeping, still no response, this morning i text him and he said he was sleeping, but whenever im over there he doesnt go to sleep til like 11 and if one of his friends text or call he doesnt ignore it... what does this mean?

2006-10-31 07:27:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing my girlfriend for 3 years since we were 16 - now 19. I'm back in court next week and looking at a 12-18 month sentence. It was an assault charge and she knows all about it and said she would stick by me. She says if I get that she can't guarantee she will stick around. I do love her and want her to stay with me but with everything else going on and worrying about jail I think she is being unfair.

2006-10-31 07:27:02 · 16 answers · asked by Mark 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex had everything going for him, he was getting toned, everyone liked him and he was done university and I am just getting my life together. Beside him I felt like a mess. He always needed space. I knew that one day he would find someone prettier or more successful so I ended it to save myself the heartbreak of not being good enough and having to look that in the eye. Now I'm lonlier than ever. What do you think?

2006-10-31 07:26:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 07:25:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

by the way im not having an affair

2006-10-31 07:25:43 · 13 answers · asked by scot_pix 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for 1 and a half years and it really bothers me when we're out at a club and she starts dancing with some of her guy friends. Or her guy friends will start dancing with her. She says that they're just having fun and I know that nothing is going to happen but I just don't like to see her dancing with other guys, even if it just her friends. Am I right to feel this way? Dancing, to me, is very suggestive so I dance with other guys and I guess I would like her to feel the same way but she doesn't. I want her to still go out with her friends but i don't want her to dance with them b/c it bothers me so I don't know what to do. I don't want to forbid her from dancing w/ guys if she thinks it funs but as a boyfriend, i'm uncomfortable with it. We got into a big fight about it a few nights ago and I don't really think anything got resolved. Help please!

2006-10-31 07:25:16 · 6 answers · asked by Viet 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 07:25:07 · 2 answers · asked by hottie4u_35776 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 07:24:29 · 9 answers · asked by mommyjaxson 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 07:24:09 · 5 answers · asked by 5150 4 in Singles & Dating

this is weird. i was out on saturday night with the girls and when i was alone this lad came up to me and said he had his eye on me for 3month or so and could he have my number, i gave him it and he has been txtn but 2nite he said the first time he saw me he thought jesus who is that that has been hit with a ugly stick i thought he was joking but wen i asked him bout it he said yeah sorry i am honest. why does he want my number and 2 take me out im really confused plz answer

2006-10-31 07:24:00 · 4 answers · asked by peglit_1234 1 in Singles & Dating

I think she's really cute. We talked a little bit here and there, but nothing too serious. Since I already know her name, should I pretend like I don't and introduce myself to her and ask her name? I was thinking of saying something like, "I see you around a lot, but I don't think I've ever introduced myself, I'm XYZ."

2006-10-31 07:23:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Say you really like this girl, you flirted for about six month, but you didn't make a move until after she got pregnant by someone else. (You did know she was pregnant at the time.) You have great chemistry together, you think she looks great, still at 6 months pregnant, but the belly isn't going to get any smaller. Would you still want her and be physically attracted to her when she starts getting real big?

2006-10-31 07:23:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what can i do, he thinks its not really from my heart and that im just saying it. how can i convince ihim, or is he jsut syaing that because thats how he feels. i dunno....suggestions?

2006-10-31 07:23:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am seeing this girl, we have a VERY special connection (we both feel it) She is also dating this other guy that she meet before me, that she really doesn't like too much. But, they were dating first. I told her at dinner the other night how much I cared for her and my feelings towards her (very hard for me to do, to put myself out there like that). Well she said she feels the same, but she needs some time to figure things out, because she already is dating this guy. But she still wants to see me while she figures it out. Should I see her again soon ? Should I try to win her over ? ..... Or, should I play it cool ? and let her contact me (not what I want, because I am nervous and waiting is making me crazy...haha) ? How long should I wait to call her ?

2006-10-31 07:21:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 07:20:49 · 9 answers · asked by Charlene B 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 07:19:45 · 18 answers · asked by Latin007 1 in Singles & Dating

I take my bad days and problems out on them, in my head I know my attitude will get better once my finances get right. Until then im just stuck with an attitude. I try hard to work on it, but people just dont know my real feelings, and the things I go through. People try to talk to me i just dont feel like being bothered.

2006-10-31 07:19:42 · 9 answers · asked by Successful1428 1 in Singles & Dating

look ever thing is going grate but i'm not sure if i know how to give my new boy friend his spase .so if there r guy's out there who can hilp or give me sum tip's plz do

2006-10-31 07:18:56 · 7 answers · asked by Geneva D 1 in Singles & Dating