We've been together for 1 and a half years and it really bothers me when we're out at a club and she starts dancing with some of her guy friends. Or her guy friends will start dancing with her. She says that they're just having fun and I know that nothing is going to happen but I just don't like to see her dancing with other guys, even if it just her friends. Am I right to feel this way? Dancing, to me, is very suggestive so I dance with other guys and I guess I would like her to feel the same way but she doesn't. I want her to still go out with her friends but i don't want her to dance with them b/c it bothers me so I don't know what to do. I don't want to forbid her from dancing w/ guys if she thinks it funs but as a boyfriend, i'm uncomfortable with it. We got into a big fight about it a few nights ago and I don't really think anything got resolved. Help please!
2006-10-31 07:25:16 · 6 answers · asked by Viet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Edit: I didn't mean to say that I dance with other guys haha. I meant to say "so I don't dance with other girls" =)
2006-10-31 07:34:53 · update #1
If you trust her then it wouldn't bother you so much. Maybe you need to look at the real reason that you don't want her to dance with anyone else. Maybe you are scared of losing her and that is why?? But you keep doing what you are doing and you will lose her. Just sit and talk to her.. No fighting, just talk and see what solution you two come up with. work it out.
2006-10-31 07:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by gamustanggirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she loves you and something makes you that uncomfortable then she should stop doing it. Part of love is about give and take. I am concerned that you said dancing is suggestive so you dance wigh guys, seems kinda funny to me.
2006-10-31 07:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she dances with other guys, that's okay...who is she going home with? When my hubby and I used to go out , lots of times I'd dance with other guys...(that I didn't know) and that's all it was---dancing. I always went home with hubby. Just out of curiosity, she thinks it is fun, so then it would be alright with her if you danced with other girls, right?
2006-10-31 07:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're dancing with guys, too? Strange.
2006-10-31 07:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it should be fine as long as she doesnt get into it....and if she is with you then you should know that she really likes you and that shouldnt matter cause they are just friends so stop liking that evil green monster come out of you!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHH HELP USS!! AWWW
2006-10-31 07:27:50 · answer #5 · answered by teddy shae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just dancing. if you dont have trust in your relationship what do you have?
2006-10-31 07:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by raelynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋