am i over reacting?

Question

ok so my bf of 1 year just seems less interested in me, I cant tell if he is cheating or just not interested in me but then I dont get why he wouldnt just leave me if he didnt like me, He used to always say he would never leave, so maybe do you think he doesnt want to hurt my feelings, ok well the thing is that when i text him last nite around 10 and said goodnite, have a good day tomorrow and i love you, he didnt write back, an hour later i was so upset i wrote are you sleeping, still no response, this morning i text him and he said he was sleeping, but whenever im over there he doesnt go to sleep til like 11 and if one of his friends text or call he doesnt ignore it... what does this mean?

Answer 1

maybe you might be just reading too much into it, but if this becomes a pattern then you might have a reason to overreact

Answer 2

i think that your over reacting, but then again... my xbf of six months suddenly broke up with me because he didn't like me anymore. we were really serious too. i asked him why he took so long to tell me, and he said that he just really did not want to hurt my feelings. anyways, you never know how wierd boys can be. i think he went to sleep at ten, because you weren't there. if you were there, he wouldn't have gone to sleep. boys have to sleep sometimes too you know. well, i hope i helped and that everything turns out ok. just think how bad he would feel if he were in your position.

Answer 3

well... maybe he is just comfortable in the relationship, and has taken you for granted, maybe he feels that there isnt any point of making an effort anymore because he has got you and your love... just talk to him and explain that he needs to be more attentive like he used to be with you, im sure once you tell him he will make more of an effort with you!

Answer 4

You need to move on, if he really cares he will come running after you.
If not, then your already on your way