Bad taste comments I mean...
2006-10-31 07:29:36 · 7 answers · asked by be 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, it is normal to feel frustrated and angry, I just have to remind myself that they are ignorant people, who don't know any better--if they knew better, they'd do better.
2006-10-31 07:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mom in law drives me nuts.she gave my husbands ex our phone number,had the nerve to ask me if the baby i was carrying was his and right before our wedding me and him had an arguement and she pulled him aside right in front of me and had the nerve to tell him that he didnt have to marry me if he didnt want to!!!she did stuff like this all the time and finally i told my hubby if he didnt do something about it then i would.i have enough respect for him to give him this chance before i went crazy on her a#s.finally he told her to stop and now me and her actually get along at times.but now when she has a slip of the tongue i make it a point to let her know shes bing an ***.why should i respect someone that doesnt have that same respect for me?
2006-10-31 15:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by these r my people 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to feel that way.In laws are in laws.If you think you're not doing anything wrong or distasteful to make them feel bad, just ignore them, i mean the comments.As long as your relationship with your husband is still stable then there's no cause for alarm.
2006-10-31 15:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by ethan j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal. You have to learn to ignore them or come up with some sharp, tasteful comebacks.
2006-10-31 15:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Trixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I deal with this daily. My mom-in-law is always making smarta** comments and stuff and it drives me nuts. My husband tells me to ignor them, he does, but he has lived with her longer than I have. I don't like 'em and they sometimes piss me off. I try to ignor them and one day they are going to come back and bite her in the a**. Only advice I can give you is to ignor them, I know how hard it is. I want to comment everytime, but I also want to keep the peace. My husband knows they bother me and he doesn't like them either. He also doesn't like me to be upset, so she is really shooting her ownself in the foot. Just sit back and wait till they have to eat their words. Good luck.
2006-10-31 15:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Its completely normal.
I have learned to bite my tongue over the years.....
I sometimes have to remind myself....respect your
elders.
However there have been times I have had to voice my opinion and I still did it in a very respectful manner.
I always remind myself how much I love their son and he is the one I am married to.
Best wishes
2006-10-31 15:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not pay any attention to my in laws
but thats just me
2006-10-31 15:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by Xae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋