ok what are good signs to look for if you suspect something is different in the relationship, i always look when i go to his house but i dont know what to really look for, there isnt anything, also whats a good way to spy on them without getting caught, i mean all i can think of is sit outside the house parked but then id need a different car... help!
2006-10-31 07:29:08 · 9 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the most obvious is a change of behavior....
Has his routine changed?
Is he calling or visiting you less than he use to prior to your suspicions?
These can be signs of cheating...
Well...although I am not too proud of it but I would do some occasional spying on my ex husband but I feel justified in doing it...LOL...so...
I would check his wallet....does he have condoms in there or more than usual? receipts for places he hasn't taken you?
I would check his phone...are their a lot of women's numbers in there or people you don't know?
I would check his car too...glove compartment....are there papers in their or pictures...etc.
I use to check his/our monthly phone bill statement and see what new numbers were appearing on there and check out the increase of text messages that were being sent as well as where they were being sent.
But the truth is....if you feel that you need to go to these measures and you cant rely on your mate's word...then he's not someone you want to be with especially if you can't trust him! Don't waste your time spying on him and trying to catch him b/c if you do prove him guilty it's not going to hurt any less. Believe me, I know. Trust your gut and even if you're wrong...well then maybe there are some trust issues you need to work out within yourself before being involved with someone. I wish you luck in dealing with these issues!
2006-10-31 07:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters always go to great lengths to cover their tracks. However, it has never been easier than it is today to catch a cheating lover. There are literally hundreds of different techniques you can use to catch a cheating partner. The method to use really depends on your specific situation. The following site provides a wide range of useful tips for catching a cheating partner.
http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/catch_cheating/public/catch-cheating-spouse.html
2006-10-31 16:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will probaby become hostile towards you.... elude you at all costs.... different people will be calling his phone. Find out the password to his voicemail for his cell phone and when he doesn't answer your calls check his voicemail. Maybe you can find something out there... its worked for me. Its usually the last 4 of his ssn. ha ha i am so sneeky.
2006-10-31 07:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by mommyjaxson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are at the point that you are so untrusting of this person that you want to spy on them... it's time to end this relation$hit!
Move on.
2006-10-31 07:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by Steven S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yup, you will get a gadget that recieves all cellular telephone transmissions, yet you will be able to desire to locate her frequency. Thats no longer in all likelihood demanding although. by potential of ways, your nuts, and it could be greater fee-effective to hire a PI_ in any case.
2016-12-28 09:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by santolucito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're gonna take it that far leave the guy . don't turn it into fatal attraction. good lord you gonna spy on the guy. then make him rabbit stew lol
2006-10-31 07:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look through his phone,see if he makes excuses alot about being late or not being able to meet you.
2006-10-31 07:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby to occupy your time.
2006-10-31 07:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say both but lying more so
2006-10-31 07:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by i hate undies! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋