people always assume that a man will cheat if his relationship isnt on the goods at that moment?
The reason I ask that is just because everytime i mention something about my relationship and what I am doing...people always respond, girl you betta stop or he may cheat on you. Men dont always result to cheating. In regards to my man, hes a good god damn man...he loves his wifey and would never do that unlike some of the men who has done that to their girly. I just want to know why people dont assume that he is good and just say well talk to him. My baby results to talking or arguing, but cheating isnt in our vocabulary in our relationship. we have been together for almost 2 yrs now and we live together now and been through everything together in this time together. My man is passionate and will still whip a dudes *** for me with no problem just like i would do for him. We are very very very close and dont have any serious problems, so why do people always say he will cheat???
2006-10-31 07:15:15 · 12 answers · asked by yagurlbubblez 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most of you people are petty anyway. I have a man who cooks, cleans, works 9-5, stood by my side when i never had anything to eat, went against his mother for me, sat in the cold with me while i almost died, breathed breath into me when i almost died...he has always been there for me and still is.
the thing that just gets me mad as hell is that when i ask a question...everyone gives the same answer and that makes me want to delete their answers becuz everyone follows what other ppl say and are ignorant and obviously lonely or doing someone else, while with someone they claim they love.
Some of you ppl are just petty lonely and bitter. Well, i get my wood on a regular, what the hell am i worried about? Oh yeah just to mention, me and my bf are going to the john legend concert tonight for Halloween. So, f off haters and for everyone who supports real relationships...thank you and i will comment on your page !!! *kisses*
2006-10-31 07:29:26 · update #1
Men could just as easily say the same thing about women. Cheating isn't limited to gender. Its woven into a persons moral fabric. Just because things are a little rocky right now in your relationship doesn't mean that he will go out and cheat on you. The important thing is that YOU trust him regardless of what anyone says. You already know that he's a good man. You are the only one who knows what your relationship is like and you are the only one who can judge that. Anyone who makes assumptions about his integrity is ignorant.
Its a waste of a good relationship to sit there and worry wether or not he's going to cheat. How can you truely enjoy being with them if your own insecurities prohibit you from doing so? Don't let anyone else convince you that he's capable of something like that. They are in no position to make that kind of assumption.
2006-10-31 07:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by SMART @SS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't believe that he will cheat then why worry about what other people think? They could be jealous or maybe people think that all men cheat and that you have him on this outrageous pedestal. And if he does ever cheat it will totally crush you because you have made him this God. But f*ck them and good for you. Keep total faith and trust in him. Don't ever doubt him if he isn't giving you a reason to.
2006-10-31 15:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by shellese2 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are evidently in the right relationship and the people who say he will cheat are not, Because trust is a great foundation for any relationship. Talking about whips you guys are kinky. he-he
2006-10-31 15:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by ed d 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"been through everything together," aparently not. He has to the potential to cheat. Nothing has to be wrong for a man to cheat. It can be that she is different, similar or just something he wants to try that he doesn't want to share with you for whatever reason. Don't set yourself up for failure. Decide now what you will do once it happens.
2006-10-31 15:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by kyle g 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because that is most likely what they would do.That`s because if something go wrong or they don`t like something, the frist thing they want to do is hurt the other person and that is the only thing that they can think of to do.You see,they want to cause pain and they think that,that will cause the most.It hurts everybody when they do it but at the time they don`t care.
2006-10-31 15:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I guess maybe they think they know something you don't. People told me last year when my babydoll was being weird with me that he was cheating and I laughed at them because my babydoll would never cheat. Well guess what? He's not married to the girl he was cheating on me with! Sometimes, people know things that you don't without even having met the man. Tread carefully, my dear.
2006-10-31 15:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
its messed up that ppl say that because its just not true about evryone most wemon that have someone chating on them should know from the jump because they are usuialy picking the bad seed anyway from start and they have to know that most of the time you would think! right?
2006-10-31 15:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by thatguy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because alot of men cheat, but that doesn't mean he will. if you trust him, that's all that matters. I just hope he is worthy of your trust.
2006-10-31 15:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by LaLa 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweet young and neive. I like you. Wish I had one just like you.
2006-10-31 15:18:37 · answer #9 · answered by just1more 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
becuase obviously you don't have a very firm grip on reality.
2006-10-31 15:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋