Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

I was listening to a woman talk about all those african and middle eastern women who get there genitals mutilated for religious reasons. She then went on to say how men are responcible for all this and that men should just accept womens bodys the way they are. I agree. But how can you sit there and blame it all on men when 90% of American boys genitals are mutilated during circumcision. Why cant women accept mens bodys the way they are. I see a double standard here. And although some men support circumcision, women have the baby and ultimatly are the ones who have to choose if it happens.

2006-10-28 09:16:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-28 09:16:02 · 3 answers · asked by rach h 1 in Weddings

I am a recently divorced, not to familiar with online. Are there any free sites or just pay sites?
Any imput on this subject is apreciated.

2006-10-28 09:15:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom flirts with me and I'm a girl she does it with my girl friends too...if I was a guy this would be okay.

2006-10-28 09:15:35 · 7 answers · asked by Dazed & Confused 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend just invited her crush (from a different school) to the movies. which is great, but then my other friend and i had to find someone 2, which really isn't a problem 4 us but we're both having bf trouble. so we decided 2 invite the twins, 2 guys from our class.

i guess we kinda just expected them 2 come, so we were both really suprised when they said they had plans! (people don't usually turn us down....) so we decided we would still go to the movies. but will it be awkward 4 the guy my friend is bringing? i mean, he is the only guy. should we sit w/ them still? any advice is greatly appreciated! thanks!

2006-10-28 09:15:01 · 5 answers · asked by sarah t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you say "I like you" meaning actually "I love you" to your significant other if you'd been dating that person for a couple of months?

2006-10-28 09:14:54 · 11 answers · asked by Emma D 1 in Singles & Dating

do guys really like the chase or the challenge of getting a girl. like if a girl were to ask them to do something would you feel that their is no longer a challenge to get her and just stop. what is this all about. do you like to know if a girl likes you. do you like for her to make the first move?

2006-10-28 09:14:31 · 1 answers · asked by shante 1 in Singles & Dating

well me and my bf have being together for 1 month and two weeks not his not a virgin but I am I love him so much he doesn't ask me to have sex he never want's to touch me or anything he respect me I just thing his shy or scare to ask me do u guys think he wants to do it ? I love him I mean I've being thinking what will it be like if I have sex for the first time with someone I love I love him even if its veing only a month and two weeks he makes me get all this butterflies inside of me when he kisses me and kisses my ear and my cheast we talk about sex sometimes everytime i say i want to have it when im 20 his doesn't say anything and when I say I will have it whith you but then I say its a joke then his all like hahahahaha but he doesn't mean to laugh I dont know what could happen when we will be together alone someday and how can I know I'm ready ( i'm 15 and his 15 I know you guys will say I'm to young but think what's the big deal of sex I will for sure use a condom and I know

2006-10-28 09:13:54 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to gave something for my girlfriend for our 1 year anniversay. i don't know what to gave her.

2006-10-28 09:13:27 · 8 answers · asked by justinluvgrace 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, but i dont know how to tell him or ask him if he likes me. should i just ask him to stay after school with me for a basketball game.

2006-10-28 09:13:16 · 1 answers · asked by cciccarella 2 in Singles & Dating

my sister has been going out with her boyfriend for about 3 or 4 weeks but now she dosent like him and likes another boy who likes her i want my sister to start liking her boyfriend because he loves her a lot and i dont want him to get hurt how can i make her like her boyfriend plz plz plz HELP!!!!!

2006-10-28 09:13:06 · 24 answers · asked by ruby 1 in Singles & Dating

if you read my question "i didt do anything" as well as the one that i last posted up" in times of crises" you will get a good idea at what is happening within my life and why i need some actual help. so, mybf calls last night and then today even after the whole thing has happened and he is neither forgiving nor forgetting especially this same situation has occured once before. i told him that i could not sleep, that i was tired, that i had 4 times yesterday in which i broke to tears. he ends up telling me that he has been in my situation and telling me that other people have it worse than i do all over the world.i got 5 hours of sleep which is not good and scaring him since he knows that a seizure can happen at time if dont calm down! he told me that he was dating this girl which is now his ex and another girl came up to him and kissed him. after that her tells me that him and his gf broke up and went their separate ways. i told him that if he wants to call it quits to do so now !

2006-10-28 09:12:42 · 2 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

Following a previous question about this girl i like at work. well, she finally gets my number but i did something that might have embarassed her in the process. She likes me am sure but since i don't have her number and she has mine do you think she will call and if she does wat should i say.

2006-10-28 09:12:27 · 3 answers · asked by abcde_s 2 in Singles & Dating

Should I call this guy. I have told someone to tell him that I like him and also to give him number. I believe he gave it to him yesterday. How long should I wait before calling. We are talking about a shy guy here.

2006-10-28 09:11:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been friends for a long time, and we have feelings for each other. He's always asking to come visit me. (he is a great guy though..he is not a cheater..) The other day when we were on the phone, he said to me "i know you miss me!" I thought that was cute. What do you guys think?

2006-10-28 09:11:47 · 5 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2 in Singles & Dating

I usually am too individualist because I can't stand people wanting to take advantage of me, and I'm afraid of them turning me out like it happenned before, so I never go to the meetings, etc, just keep the relationships nice fut superficial, try to be generous but no more

2006-10-28 09:10:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm just curious what other husbands of have done and what their wives think.

2006-10-28 09:10:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the deal. I don't fit into abrecrombie. I fit into an XL in aero. Nobody likes a girl who is chubby in my school.I am not popular. I have never dated. Everyone I know started in 5th grade. I feel alone. I want to be popular, but I want a boyfriend. How can I? I don't know how.

2006-10-28 09:08:14 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica Wannabaprep 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 09:08:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats a smart thing to reply?

2006-10-28 09:07:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend lost her daughter almost 2 years ago. Now she is married to a good guy who takes care of her son she already had and their daughter they had together. She is just now being affected by the death of her daughter and she has been very suicidal. They put her in a mental hospital and she is now feeling alot better but she wants to divorce her husband and get rid of her kids. Never wanting to see them again. I know how it feels to be abandoned by my mom. I hate her for it now. My friend keeps asking me for advice and i don't know what to say. I want her to be happy but i don't want her kids and her husband to be messed up forever because she is being selfish and just doesn't want to be tied down anymore. And i know she doesn't because she has cheated on her husband 3 times now and they have just been together a little over a year. any advice on what to say to her.

2006-10-28 09:06:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-28 09:05:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Should I just automatically pay for them both, pay only for mine and she can pay for hers, let her pay for both (I don't think so!).
What's the right thing to do here? Little things like this do matter because they are a bit awkward.

2006-10-28 09:05:23 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend had been off in la-la land with her boyfriend for several months, ignoring me, when we used to talk all the time. When her 21st birthday rolled around, I put together a thoughtful and cool gift, and drove out of town to go see her. She spent about 5 minutes talking to me, then took off with her boyfriend, even though I had called earlier to confirm they would be home for a while. I thought, oh well, shes twitterpated. I made an effort to reach out and show her I was still there, and she crapped on me. Then, a couple months later, for my birthday, my husband called to invite her to my party. She said no, cuz her boyfriend wouldnt come with. But then he finally decided to come, so they show up at my house. I greet her at the door and this is exactly what she said "hey... isnt this like the cutest outfit ever? i just got it...... oh, and I couldnt get you anything, sorry." Is it just me or was that total bullcrap? Its not about the gift, but the thought, or lack of

2006-10-28 09:05:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm a 25 year old girl who has never had a boyfriend (therefore never had sex!). I've achieved a lot at work and study really hard so don't have time to go out and meet men. When I do go out all I see is stupid men who drink themselves to oblivion and pick their female twin! Is there anything wrong with me?

2006-10-28 09:05:15 · 31 answers · asked by curiosity_kills 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 09:04:46 · 13 answers · asked by lady butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i'm a 20 yr old guy, never had a gf cause i'm shy but wtv, thats not important. I like this girl, i think she likes me..sracth that..i think. I often give her lifts everywhere cause i want her to like to me. yet she never call me for any other reason now. I won't talk to her all weekend and then on monday she will call me for a lift, no whats up just can i have a lift, and if i say no, its ok bye. is she using me??? probally. Shes a rich suburban girl. I really like her, what should i do?

2006-10-28 09:04:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 09:03:55 · 4 answers · asked by stew 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 13 and my mom is starting to get annoying. she always yelling at me for dumb stuff. for example, two days ago i lost 7 dollars and my mom got pissed. a year ago my mom lost 100 dollar and when i point this out to her she yells at me even more.

why isn't she like this to my brother. when i forget to do stuff for him on the computer she starts yelling at me but when he brakes my leg he dosen't get in any trouble.

i'm actually starting to like school because i don't have to be around her.

2006-10-28 09:03:39 · 18 answers · asked by suvash k 2 in Family

2006-10-28 09:03:34 · 13 answers · asked by Joeschmo 1 in Singles & Dating