Should I call this guy. I have told someone to tell him that I like him and also to give him number. I believe he gave it to him yesterday. How long should I wait before calling. We are talking about a shy guy here.
2006-10-28 09:11:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband is a shy man and I found the best approach is don't phone him, he will run for the hills because he is shy.
The best approach in my opinion is to get to know him as a friend and build on that. All good relationships start with a strong friendship.
You took the first move now wait it out and let him take his time to phone you.
A group date is a good way to start the ball rolling and you can invite him to go along under the pretence of friendship and see where that leads, just don't push him take your time, your still young you have your whole life before you don't rush it.
2006-10-28 09:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you are really interested, and you know he's a shy guy, there is no reason to wait long. I would say something to the effect:
Hey, I told X to give you my number, but I've heard you were a pretty shy guy so I thought I would just give you a call. I hope you don't mind. Do you want to...
Don't play games, just follow your heart/feelings.
2006-10-30 09:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by straightup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could take several days. Remember, the male is the more timid sex! Even at adult of age don't think they've overcome much, most of them. So, wait until then, and if he doesn't end up calling you, leave a nice and simple message. Though, it's difficult, for he may not be particularly interested in you... go with your heart and common sense; And odn't you see him at school? What's he like there? If he's confronted to you, how does he act? Think about this. Good luck!
2006-10-28 09:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes shy, hes still gonna be shy when u call him. it might take awhile, but id go with the "question" approach. i mean dont badger him, but ask him about things he lieks, eventually u'll hit somethin that he really loves and he'll be less shy and feel more comfortable around you.
if you call him it might be kinda awkward b/c he'll be like ahh a girl is calling meee and im already shyyyy. i think u should hold off on the phone, and hang out with him a bit more, with a small group of people so that he wont feel pressured er anything. but yea jsut get him to feel comfortable around u and he'll open up!
good luck!!
2006-10-28 09:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by aceofhearts0004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey Honey Honey. You have what he wants. Don't call him. Make him want you so bad that he can't stop thinking about calling you at the least. Just flirt with him for another week, and if he hasn't called you then you could try calling him but he may not be interested.
2006-10-28 09:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone gave this guy your number, and you want to know when you should call him? *puzzled look* If he didn't give you his own number and let you know he was open to you calling, then don't call him. If he's got your number, and is interested enough, he'll gather the courage to make the call (or TM you or something).
2006-10-28 09:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all i wiould ask the guy who gave your number to the guy that you like did he really give him my number?? And then i would wait another day or 2, if he doesnt call, then I would call him and cassually say, I thought i gave you got my number and i guess you lost it? iam so sorry to bother you but?? How are you ? and talk nicely?
2006-10-28 09:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by trudycaulfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im almost in the same situation I told my best friend to tell this guy that I like him (Even thow he has a girlfriend) If I was in your situation I'd just call him and say I was bored and needed someone to talk to but thats jus me lol
2006-10-28 09:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. 1 day wait.
2. Call.
3. Indulge in sex.
4. Date.
2006-10-28 09:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by Roy 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wait another day, then call him. i heard from somewhere that guys wait for 2 days before calling a girl, so they wont seem like they are "too willing".
2006-10-28 09:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋