my sister has been going out with her boyfriend for about 3 or 4 weeks but now she dosent like him and likes another boy who likes her i want my sister to start liking her boyfriend because he loves her a lot and i dont want him to get hurt how can i make her like her boyfriend plz plz plz HELP!!!!!
2006-10-28 09:13:06 · 24 answers · asked by ruby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't meddle.
2006-10-28 09:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
These are decisions I suppose that shape the character of a would-be young adult...as adults we have to make adult decisions...ones we have to live with...thats the difference between children and adults...the levels of responsibility...you cant make one person like or dislike another...you are growing up and learning about the facts of life as you grow...this is a natural process...from what it sounds like you and your sister are at an age where she and you will find someone new in time because perhaps as young adults we need to learn and explore other people and surroundings as a part of the learning process...if you are both adults this question would be very disturbing...in any regard good luck...
2006-10-28 16:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't. People know who they like. U can't interfere. Let nature take it's course. It will probably leave you and your sister mad at each other anyway. It will be ok. How do you know that the boyfriend didn't do anything wrong to your sister.
2006-10-28 16:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by likecandy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't force anything. Just let her do what she wants. Make sure she is listening to her heart, and doing what is in her best interest. He will eventually get over it, and move on to another girl.
you are very nice to care so much about his feelings though.......
2006-10-28 16:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slowly show her the qualities of her boyfriend now... and the bad things about the guy she has the hots for.... she has to come to her senses eventually
2006-10-28 16:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jacqueline S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sound impossible, because your sister is the only one capable of liking or disliking anyone...
but, if you want to play it "dirty", you could start telling her things about her new BF, bad things that is, and convince her to go back to her former BF...;-)
2006-10-28 16:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by AG 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't and it's not your business. If she's lost interest in him then the best thing for them to do is part ways, so each can be open to meeting someone who really does dig them.
He'll be fine...don't worry.
2006-10-28 16:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know how that feels, just ask her to make a list, you cant controll her, but tell her you love her too much, so on the list make it long ways, and make a line through the middle. then write there names in a differnt sides. asker to list thing good and bad about them both, and ask what she wants
2006-10-28 16:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by Des'ree is how to spell my n 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, there is absolutely no way that you can make that happen; once the feelings are gone, there is no turning back....and there is definitely no way if she has found another interest already. Sorry.
2006-10-28 16:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by Poukha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mind your own business and stay out of your sister's lovelife.
Do you like her boyfriend?
2006-10-28 16:14:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she doesn't like him there is nothing you can do about it. Why do you want her to like him so much? Do you want to date him? Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do, except to talk to her about how she feels. Just be a good sister & want her to be happy no matter who it is with.
2006-10-28 16:18:25 · answer #11 · answered by Feeling Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋