if you read my question "i didt do anything" as well as the one that i last posted up" in times of crises" you will get a good idea at what is happening within my life and why i need some actual help. so, mybf calls last night and then today even after the whole thing has happened and he is neither forgiving nor forgetting especially this same situation has occured once before. i told him that i could not sleep, that i was tired, that i had 4 times yesterday in which i broke to tears. he ends up telling me that he has been in my situation and telling me that other people have it worse than i do all over the world.i got 5 hours of sleep which is not good and scaring him since he knows that a seizure can happen at time if dont calm down! he told me that he was dating this girl which is now his ex and another girl came up to him and kissed him. after that her tells me that him and his gf broke up and went their separate ways. i told him that if he wants to call it quits to do so now !
2006-10-28 09:12:42 · 2 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
besides that he will not tell if we are done or not since he knows i have a busy week with 2 tests and one quiz and that i need to do good! he just tells me to get some rest and that i dont have it as bad as i think i do, that he has been there and done that-he is almost 24 and i am 22-and that i need to relax and not waste time! i wonder why he wont tell me what is going on through his mind, especially if we are history or not since i told him that if he were to tell me that i would just have a major meltdown today and go and work out and study to get over it! he tells me that he prays at night for God to give me wisdom and make me a better person! so he will not forgive me as well as not forget the whole thing,so then what is up? i mean he calls me and is there to support me and make me feel better and hears me cry over the phone and knows that i am in times of crises but he just wants me to be happy and stop crying and to enjoy life! what is your opinion that will happen?thnx
2006-10-28 09:19:58 · update #1
please split, its not doing you any good, especially because hes not in tune with your needs. who cares if people have it worse anywhere else? this is happening to you and thats why he should be supportive. start clearing up your life of sterssful situations, your bf is one of thwm. god bless you.
2006-10-28 09:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by cruzanglero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"IF HE WANTS????" stop acting like a doormat (sorry but that's my impression) and DUMP him faster than a handful of hot coals! Good luck to you!!
2006-10-28 16:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋