My friend just invited her crush (from a different school) to the movies. which is great, but then my other friend and i had to find someone 2, which really isn't a problem 4 us but we're both having bf trouble. so we decided 2 invite the twins, 2 guys from our class.
i guess we kinda just expected them 2 come, so we were both really suprised when they said they had plans! (people don't usually turn us down....) so we decided we would still go to the movies. but will it be awkward 4 the guy my friend is bringing? i mean, he is the only guy. should we sit w/ them still? any advice is greatly appreciated! thanks!
2006-10-28 09:15:01 · 5 answers · asked by sarah t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, are you worried that it will be uncomfortable for him, or uncomfortable for you and the other stag friend. I don't know many guys who aren't going to actually relish the fact that they are going to be surrounded by women, especially ones that aren't used to being turned down. Think a little less about your inability to secure a date on this one night and more about how a little support and back up may help relax what could be a really nerve wrecking night of first impressions for the friend who finally gets to spend some time with her crush. It may make it so much easier for her to be herself if she knows her best girls are thier to help fill the gaps in conversation. Ask your friend if she wants you ladies close by or maybe even just two seats over during the movie. The time spent in the bathroom discussing the stupid comments or getting advice on how to say something will be much easier in person than over her cell phone if she needs to reach out for a lifeline during the date.
2006-10-28 09:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mark B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry and over analyze so much. You are all going out to go to the movies and have fun. Keep things fun and light hearted, keep him in the conversation and try to avoid "in jokes" that would make him feel isolated. If they want to sit by themselves let them, but it is only a movie so don't worry so much with the planning.
Overplanning is usually what makes things awkward.
2006-10-28 09:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by coppersmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, you guys would be good to break the ice...sometimes its hard on the first date..especially if she is crushin on him.He is sure to know this. Just make sure she goes looking better than the two of u..lol
2006-10-28 09:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by needtoknownowplz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear you were turned down but don't let that affect the rest of your lives.I think ye should still go and get to know your mates bf.Make him feel comfortable and at ease and then he wouldn't mind going out with ye all again sometime
2006-10-28 09:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by D8411 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you probably should he would only think it was akward if you started to hit on him.
2006-10-28 09:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋