Am I a sad freak?

Question

I'm a 25 year old girl who has never had a boyfriend (therefore never had sex!). I've achieved a lot at work and study really hard so don't have time to go out and meet men. When I do go out all I see is stupid men who drink themselves to oblivion and pick their female twin! Is there anything wrong with me?

Answer 1

no way your not, your a very very good nice girl, who making a good life and enjoying herself, I feel like you too, im 21 i never had boyfriend ,sure ive liked guys and even wanted to be with someone , but some guys behave strange and show signs of unfatihness which I cant stand,

I have done alot being my age and I'm quite happy, that I have learned some things, and have freedom, I feel lonely at evenings I cant lie, I always do wish for a guy to be with me all the time but who wouldnt have these feelings are naturally , I'm so so glad to have heard this from you as I thought I was the only one, and I agree men drink themeselves, and you have achieved a lot at work ,why because you are single, I studied too and want to carry on, but people like oursleves really are committed to our work, and the truth is I find it impossible and not making an excuse for myself to have a partner boyfriend while im studying for one I want to make a life for ME, first understand myself and worry about my self you cannot do this if you have a partner, I decided after i finish doing the things I want then I would like to settle down and it makes more sense, those girls never do well because all the interested in is boys and stuff, and the person above was right ,men also want to work and set they goals too is well, and our age is young anyway maybe we here everybody doing it , thats because they think they have to , and its wrong im so glad I have mine, and the truth is im dead scared of even the thought of sex and im 21 but at least im being sensible , and the good thing is you know what you want from life, and you concentrated and study hard in your work which is great really great, be happy you will find a very nice decent man, wish for me too, I really im gald for you , you worked hard you didnt mess around its very very, good, I know like your worrying I worry too, but the truth is we make a great sucess of our life , by being committed and for a commitment its to irgnore other things , basicly giving the time that needs the most important time like studying , i wish you the best of luck , i hope you are very sucessful in life which I can see will happen and all your dreams come true good day my friend

Answer 2

not a thing...you are still young and there are other ways to meet a man who's not only interested in drinkin ghimself stupid!!! I know it's not perceived as cool but why not try a dating agancy? That way you can find a guy with similar interests!!! Try joining a club or something...see if you can't find your ideal match and when you are out look a bit harder...not all the guys are drinking like fish!!! The best things come to those who wait!!!x

Answer 3

I don't think there is anything wrong, but you don't want to be the 40 yr old virgin right? I mean right man wrong man there comes a time when ya just need to get f**Ked . Am I right People? Now be way more social I mean waaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyy. Just watch out for the re re's and dogs and you'll be OK! Go get some girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!before it's to late!

Answer 4

No, there is nothing wrong with you! You are not likely to find someone in a bar or a club.
When you have the time, try joining some kind of a club that doesn't have alcohol involved in all activities. Good luck to you! You should be proud of yourself for not giving into peer pressure.

Answer 5

im like the same way but im 19. im so paranoid about losing my virginity to some loser. because so far as i know every guy is one...
im working on meeting a nice guy though, its the only thing you can do. make it a little project. i tried a lot of new things, talking to random boys in the elevator, going on a dating website. so far ive met some nice guys, but i dont find them attractive :/. the dating website was pretty cool, i would recommend doing that just for an experiment.

Answer 6

You sound as if you are honest and discriminating. You know what you want and you are prepared to wait until you get it. You surely will somehow or other and it will have been worth the wait. I admire you. You are not sad and not a freak, although, unfortunately, somewhat unusual I suspect. Good luck, you deserve the best.

Answer 7

there is absolutely not a single thing wrong with you, i'd be worried if you found these 'men' and i use the term loosely, attractive, out on the drink just isnt the best place to meet someone you want a decent relationship with, i dont know one single person who's met anyone worth having from a night on the razz. dont worry about it, more ppl should be like you instead of just looking out to get their rocks off. your to be congratulated.

Answer 8

There's nothing at all wrong with you. You do need some fun, though. Clubbing clearly isn't your
scene, so go out somewhere else, or join a club? There are some intelligent blokes out there somewhere, but you aren't going to find him in a book.

Answer 9

no not at all you have a achieved alot and should be proud of it. thats alot more than most people can say. although you dont have to meet men out at night where ever you go there is a chance to meet soimeone.

Answer 10

i'd be mad. not freaking-out reason there are women those who're flat-chested and that is not that a lot of a biggie many of the time. yet i became given good sized boobs, and that i'd be quite freaking mad in the adventure that they were gone.