i think i hate my mom,?

Question

i'm 13 and my mom is starting to get annoying. she always yelling at me for dumb stuff. for example, two days ago i lost 7 dollars and my mom got pissed. a year ago my mom lost 100 dollar and when i point this out to her she yells at me even more.

why isn't she like this to my brother. when i forget to do stuff for him on the computer she starts yelling at me but when he brakes my leg he dosen't get in any trouble.

i'm actually starting to like school because i don't have to be around her.

Answer 1

Kid, grow up! You are suffering from an extreme bout of Thirteen- year-olditis. Thirteen year-olds get very weird and generally hate EVERYTHING, most of all, their mothers. And are you telling us your brother broke (and it's break, not brake) your leg on purpose? I doubt this happened. Since you are living under your mom's roof and she is footing your bills, then you have to go with the flow until you are old enough and can go out on your own. By the way, I assume Mom (and maybe Dad) pays for YOUR time on the Internet. You certainly DON'T! Like I said, try and grow up and stop whining about nothing.

Answer 2

I am sure that your mom may at this point feel that she is doing what is best for you , and maybe at your age that is a hard thing to realize but you should be thankful that she cares enough to even bother because so many parents dont and when your child acts like she or he hates their parents that is very hard on the parents and in fact it is cruel , does your mom see to it that you have food and does she see to it that you have cloths , and a roof over your head , shoes to wear , medical attention when needed , how can you say you hate her , , and sometimes moms are harder on girls than boys and vice versa with dads , and as far as your brother breaking your leg did he really do it on purpose or was it an accident , see there are alot of things left out here but anyway starting to like school is great but your liking it for the wrong reason , your 13 as you grow up you should see things differently , that is if you are open to seeing things differently , if not you will just make things worse on yourself , try talking to your mom , try having mother daughter time with her , she as well as you may love that , good luck

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with liking school, School is good.
Your mother is your mother and I'm sure she loves you. She probably just not sure on how to show it and how you feel about her. You have to have a good mother and daughter talk. Tell her how you are feeling ask her why? Find out what she's feeling and what she is going through. Look her in the eyes with love and speak to her. I am sure there is more to the story that you haven't said but you ladies need to communicate. Don't challenge your mom that won't work. Talk!

Answer 4

You know, my daughter used to hate me too. She would even tell me so and i would say OK. She continued to dislike off and on until she got married and had a baby of her own and now we laugh about it. Her baby is so very much like her and I sure feel sorry for her now. Your mother loves you and is doing her best to raise you to be a responsible young lady. Maybe you should try to understand her side. (at least try to understand) Come on, try a little bit????? I don't think it is easy being a mother of a 13 year girl, either. Good luck Hey, where is that big smile?

Answer 5

I understand, moms can get like that once in a while, but don't take it to serious and never say that you hate your mom. I know it can get on your nerves, but you should try totalk to her and tell her how you feel, maybe she will understand and change a little bit. Well good luck and school is not bad for you, so keep on getting involve, sometimes school makes you forget about problems at home, well at least it did for me.

Answer 6

First and foremost, I've never met you, so the following advice a purely theoretical science.

When we were little, mommy knew best. However, once you get older, you are able to see maternal mistakes and flaws. Even the most "perfect" teen can and will get annoyed at their parent(s). None-the-less, family is family. No matter how frustrating and flawed, love for them is instinctual.

Burning bridges - especially when one is as young as you - is both dangerous and foolish.

"Be careful of the toes you step on today, they may be connected to the *** you have to kiss tomorrow."

Answer 7

Some people will say that you're getting rebellious because you're reaching that life stage and all.

Try to keep a cool head first. Reflect on current issues that your mom is dealing with. is she having any difficulties at work and so on.

My friend had the same problem. He didnt like to stay home and was starting to smoke and hanging out with the wrong bunch. But one of his friends form church told him that.. our parents work hard to put food on the table.. and they have their stresses.. work.. family.. friends.. and that they dont have the opportunity to release their stress like we do (ie. tantrums, playing games, screaming at our parents). So when they scold us, they are releasing stress too.. what we can do is just tune out... like, your body is there, but your mind aint.

Or you can talk to your mom calmly.. about things that you have issues with... I once felt like my parents treated my brother the same as your mom did... i told them how i felt... but of course they denied it and said they treated their kids the same... but hey, at least they know how i feel and would perhaps be more considerate and start thinking about how they are treating their kids.

Be cool and calm and mature about it. No point starting a fight when you can prevent it.

Answer 8

I think hate is a very strong word to be use toward your own mother, but I know where you are coming from. I have 3 other siblings and my mom is doing the same thing to me as your mom is doing to you.I am not going to say I hate her, but she is really starting to get on my last good nerve.

Answer 9

you have to realize that you are getting up to that age where you are becoming a young lady and there is alot of responsibility that comes along with that. your mom is just being tough on you because your so young and she wants whats best for you. there are alot of girls out here your age who are pregnant or having sex. shes just looking out for your best interests. it will take some time but she'll ease up off you. just be patient.

Answer 10

Look maybe it's because your from different fathers(If you are.) or maybe it's because she might be going through menopause or she just isn't doing anyhing and you think she acts like this because that's what every teenager thinks, I'm not saying she isn't but you take more directly because that's what teens do.