Here's the deal. I don't fit into abrecrombie. I fit into an XL in aero. Nobody likes a girl who is chubby in my school.I am not popular. I have never dated. Everyone I know started in 5th grade. I feel alone. I want to be popular, but I want a boyfriend. How can I? I don't know how.
2006-10-28 09:08:14 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica Wannabaprep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. Be happy. Have self-confidence. Don't think about popular'ation' stuff. Who is popular anyway? What's the deal with that? What is popular in your eyes may not be popular or cool to another person and vice-versa.
Anyway, let it come to you and don't go chasing it.
To me, people who act desperate for other people can be loser'ish. Don't get me wrong, you're not loser'ish.
Oh, I hoped I helped and you don't get the wrong impression.
I'm sure you're very special and people don't see that because they are blinded.
2006-10-28 09:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by sharpy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just continue being yourself.your an amazing girl who shoudln't be worrying about little things like this...it must be hard cuz people around you are dating but hey...you don't need to date to be cool.pssht.being single kicks ***.
if you really wanna go out though and end up liking a boy or w.e...that you think you might wanna try going out with...maybe go up to him and talk to him..let him get to know the real you...you have so much to offer guys out there...and if some guys dont' see that now...then they not worth your time anyways....you have so much time to date anyways...dont' let this kind of stuff get to you...and anyways..you sure youre ready to date?or are u trying to do it to fit in?...tht another thing...don't start doing somethign if your not comfterale with it...and hey once you get into the whoel dating scene it not liek it the most amazing experience ever anyways...i mean you dont' get much time for a bunch of fun activities, youir grades might suffer, you miss out on sweet hangouts with your friends sometimes...like dating isn't all that amazing sometimes...though i'm nto saying it's completely horrible eaither...lol i'm just gunna stop now...
smile!:)
2006-10-28 09:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by lil_flirt_57<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you actually have 2 choices, 1 you accept who you are, and just be the girl you are ( dont care of what they say) and wait for the perfect guy who likes you for who you are.. or 2 accept who you are, work it up and lose those pounds, be the girl who you want to be and see them piling up in your doorstep ;)
but always remember that whichever of the 2 you choose, you deserve all the things other girls deserve so dont go lowering your standards for the sake of experiencing it.. and it feels good to revenge on the guys who put you down, and see him drooling over you when you finally worked it out ;)
2006-10-28 09:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by mara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on improving your self esteem...if you don't like you, why should anyone else? Highlight the things about yourself that you like...work on changing/improving the things about yourself that you don't like.
When you are self confident and happy, others will notice and will naturally want to be near you...that's when you'll be ready to have a partner, and probably have plenty to choose from...
Good luck!
2006-10-28 09:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a boy how is in to you like say you like soccer and the guy you love likes soccer and maybe find some friends who like what you like and maybe find some thing they like as well then go up to them and start talking to them
2006-10-28 09:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by ericaflores_13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a self esteem make over sweetie, email me will work it out for you
2006-10-28 09:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by krazydavina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and talk to the guy as friend
2006-10-28 09:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ply your preferred beau with alcohol-a-plenty.
2006-10-28 09:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by entangld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence, dont try too hard, dont put down on yourself.
2006-10-28 09:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by lytleluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋