My friend had been off in la-la land with her boyfriend for several months, ignoring me, when we used to talk all the time. When her 21st birthday rolled around, I put together a thoughtful and cool gift, and drove out of town to go see her. She spent about 5 minutes talking to me, then took off with her boyfriend, even though I had called earlier to confirm they would be home for a while. I thought, oh well, shes twitterpated. I made an effort to reach out and show her I was still there, and she crapped on me. Then, a couple months later, for my birthday, my husband called to invite her to my party. She said no, cuz her boyfriend wouldnt come with. But then he finally decided to come, so they show up at my house. I greet her at the door and this is exactly what she said "hey... isnt this like the cutest outfit ever? i just got it...... oh, and I couldnt get you anything, sorry." Is it just me or was that total bullcrap? Its not about the gift, but the thought, or lack of
2006-10-28 09:05:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like your friend is very self -centered. I don't think she is capable of being a good friend to you at this time. I would write these things down and refer to them if you ever wonder what happened to your relationship. You deserve better treatment than that!!
2006-10-28 09:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend is totally self centered, rude and incapable of understanding how she is making others feel. I would let her know that you are no longer friends and that you hope that she is happy with her know guy, cause she no longer has you to talk to. She is completely rude and you don't deserve to be treated that way.
2006-10-28 16:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by hargonagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is very self-centered which means she's a user. It took a situation to bring this trait out in her.
2006-10-28 16:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is wrong for telling you that she just got a new outfit but couldn't get you anything. shows that she is selfish and lacks respect. forget about her.
2006-10-28 16:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her as a friend...she is to obsessed with her b/f and herself...anyways you are happy with your husband and you will soon to be having kids and then you wont even have time for her.
2006-10-28 16:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that is you friend? Should i say are you sure that she was ever your friend.Sometimes we get tied up in being a friend and not see who we are being a friend to.
2006-10-28 16:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by Step 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not a friendship. It's all about her. Find a better friend.
2006-10-28 16:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't sound like a good friend at all. don't be her friend anymore. act like what she is doing to you and see what happens.
2006-10-28 16:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
PUNCH HER IN HER OVARY!
2006-10-28 16:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by LIZARD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋