Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

I have been reading a lot of questions on here about cheating spouces. When a man says he cheated on his wife, he gets called the scum of the earth and is riduculed like hell. When a woman says she cheats on a man however, they tell her how she just has to show her husband that she still loves him and that he will get over it eventually. If a woman cheated on me i would never speak to her again. Why isnt the woman ridiculed like the man??????

2006-10-28 15:59:00 · 22 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When you are sad i will get you drunk and help you plot reveng against the sorry bastered who mad you sad.

When you are blue I'll try to dislodge watever is choking you.

When you smile I will finaly know you got laid.

When you are scared, I will rag you about it every chance I get.

When you are worried, I will tell you horrible stories about how much worse it could be and to stop whining.

When you are confused I will use little words to explain it to your dumb a**.

When you are sick stay away from me cause I dont want whatever you have.

When you fall down I will point and laugh at your clumsy a**.

Do you people like my Dear Friend note LOL

2006-10-28 15:58:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-28 15:57:48 · 8 answers · asked by kristikay1965 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have known each other only for a few days, but I have made up my mind to ask her to marry me. Here's the plan: I have a house under construction and it's nearing completion. I haven't told her anything about the house. I am thinking of taking her to the house, have her open the front door, show her around, ask her if I can hold her hand and propose.

Ques:

1. It will be around the middle of December that I'll be taking her to the place. Is 2 months of knowing each other a little too early?
2. I went through a lot of difficulties during the process of house construction... loan approval, land acquisition, etc, and I didnt borrow a single penny from my Dad or my friends. I cut down on my personal expenses, lived on a strict budget, and it has finally paid off. I wish to share this with her when I am showing her around the house because I want her to know. Will it sound like I am bragging or is it alright?
3. Should I keep the ring box closed or open when giving it to her

2006-10-28 15:57:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this guy for four mths. now. we are in our early thirties so we've had a decent, mature relationship. I just broke up with him because honestly I got jealous. He and his ex-girlfriend have a two yr. old daughter together. They go to the fair together and all sorts of stuff. I never said anything b/c I didn't want him to think that I wasn't understanding of his daughter. But, lately his ex calls him about everything and he runs to her, breaking plans with me, and so forth. I feel like I'm an outsider. When I broke up, I just told him that he was too busy for me and I played it off really cool. He tried twice that same day to get back together but I was firm. Now, I feel I made a mistake because I miss him so much. He hasn't called back and I'm wondering if he will???

2006-10-28 15:57:25 · 7 answers · asked by precious girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everytime we have sex, he always try to go down on me, which i actually like it too, but i cant take it too long, as it tickles me sooo much and i just couldnt take it and told him to stop. It feels good but tickles me so much at the same time that i have to stop him. Lately i think it annoyed him as he thought i just dont enjoy it. I told him but he doesnt seem to get it. Is it something wrong with me? I really want to be able to fully enjoy it.. any help? :(

2006-10-28 15:57:17 · 13 answers · asked by tiiista 2 in Singles & Dating

I've liked him guy for almost a year now..i know i know ive got it badd. Last year we were really close and this year we are too, we talk a lot about everything. But the thing is there are a lot of things about him i dont like but for some reason hes the only one i ever think about and all my friends think hes a jerk and an *** hole but they dont konw him or talk to him like i do and it seems like he likes me too but wouldnt he have said something by now idk. Should i tell him how i feel or leave it and try to get over him?? What do u guys think??

2006-10-28 15:56:36 · 3 answers · asked by peyton 2 in Singles & Dating

At monopoly I cheat on my wife by taking properties from the bank while shes in the bathroom, or putting houses on my stuff, then I beat her and I say HA I BEAT YOU AT MONOPOLY. I lie to her about playing fair.

2006-10-28 15:56:27 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She will be getting out of work at 4PM and I want to plan event's until approximtely 12 midnight on a Wednesday night in NYC. Ladies, give me what you would consider your ideal birthday evening.

2006-10-28 15:56:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls feel free to pass any comments.

2006-10-28 15:55:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had broke up with my girlfriend for nearly half year, but all the memories have keeps coming back. What does that mean, What should i do, Should i go find her and talk with her? I had been with my girlfriend for a year, through that time, arguments were our primary activities. She is from a pretty rich family, where money problem doesn't bother her nor does any other human basic need problems. She lives in a family where she is spoiled and became such unreasonable person, where only she expect her boyfriend to please her in many ways...such as phone call everynight, which i tried my best and toleranted all her attitudes. However, due to my stricted family rule and parents attitudes i had have many fight with them due to phone call, going out and spending money. Often i lied to go out her my girlfriend and everytime i'm the money spender, which i don't mind. But she didn't care to ask me that. When i have to work, she would ask 'why i work so much?' I had to suppose myself.

2006-10-28 15:55:31 · 1 answers · asked by ymuczl 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what it is, i can't find a girl whose interested.

2006-10-28 15:55:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 15:54:50 · 27 answers · asked by Hamraaz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just once I would love to come home to a clean house. I spend so much time cleaning it up and my roomates just trash the place and never clean up. I have tried asking nicely, made a cleaning schedule, being firm, threatened to move, everything and nothing works! I'm tired of moving and I don't know what else to do. Please help!!

2006-10-28 15:54:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I can see myself with this guy for the rest of my life, I've loved him for so long, And he makes me smile. He's never been mad at me a day in his life and I can cry in front of him, and over him. He's not the "hottest" guy ever he's just amazing. Nobody else can see him the way I do, When I tell them about how we talk to each other, they can't believe it, Which means he doesn't talkto anyone else like that. He knows everything about me and we understnad each other.

2006-10-28 15:53:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel as if if I went out with a guy for a while, even a long time, I wouldn't care when we broke up? I see all these other girls that morn over thier bfs but I am like 'so wat'? am I being mean, or is it okay?

2006-10-28 15:53:23 · 15 answers · asked by All Of the Above 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 15:53:14 · 5 answers · asked by girlie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 15:51:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend broke up with her boyfriend quite a while back, well the whole break up thing really hurt him and after a long time he was able to "get himself back together" but she really wants him back now. He hasn't said no, but wants her to work at it.. Any ideas on what she should do? The reason I ask is because she won't stop talking about it.... so really HELP ME!!!!

2006-10-28 15:51:24 · 12 answers · asked by Ali 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend was in a car accident on his way to see me...he lived only a few short after the accident. His friends and family is blaming me that if he hadnt been on his way to see me he would still be alive. And now is friends think that I should be in his place "six feet under" and they are finding it necessary to beat me up constantly. I feel like I deserve this punishment but others dont think that I do. I wasnt even able to attend the funeral because his family is blaming me for his death. I dont know what to do and I dont know how to handle this. I would really appreciate some advice. Any kind would help. THANKS GUYS!

2006-10-28 15:51:12 · 34 answers · asked by Sondra 1 in Friends

hi everybody!

how many of you wish to say goodmorning to me?

2006-10-28 15:49:34 · 8 answers · asked by kalai 1 in Singles & Dating

thrs a new guy who came to my high school (jr.) about two months ago, and in that time we've come generally close. we relate to each other perfectly. (the following might seem random but it is relevant)- me and him are in the same health class, and we've received a project that we have to do on a health issue. (okay, shifting again) recently he's told me about an old friend he had that was bulimic, and he told me about how rough it was trying to help her and all that.back to the health project- abscent mindedly i chose bulimia as my subject. now heres my issue: me and him are close and all,but in realtiy its only been two months,and i dont want to do anything to drive him away, im afraid that if i do bulimia as my topic after all that he told me,he might be angry with me cuz im about to present on a very personal topic of his, publicly,especially when i KNOW how much it effected and hurt him. i just dont want to hurt him.i can alwaysdo another topic.wat do i do? am i overreacting? help

2006-10-28 15:49:19 · 13 answers · asked by ჯ Demi ჯ 3 in Friends

How could you let it be known without hurting the other persons feelings. This person is also the most insecure mate I have ever had in my life. This person is suspicious, nagging and annoying. Its no wonder that this person has failed in relationships prior to ours. I don't even consider this a relationship. He is the most inexperienced man I have ever met to be his age. He's always groping on me like a pervert. It makes me sick! He is very immature when it comes to being. Actually, I am sadden by him. I believe he is a very sick guy.

2006-10-28 15:49:11 · 15 answers · asked by lovinp 1 in Singles & Dating

for me it's
1. Dominican Republic
2. Cuba
3. Puerto Rico
4. Colombia
5. Mexico
I'm mixed black, east indian, and native american

2006-10-28 15:48:47 · 12 answers · asked by jb 3 in Singles & Dating

thrs a new guy who came to my high school (jr.) about two months ago, and in that time we've come generally close. we relate to each other perfectly. (the following might seem random but it is relevant)- me and him are in the same health class, and we've received a project that we have to do on a health issue. (okay, shifting again) recently he's told me about an old friend he had that was bulimic, and he told me about how rough it was trying to help her and all that.back to the health project- abscent mindedly i chose bulimia as my subject. now heres my issue: me and him are close and all,but in realtiy its only been two months,and i dont want to do anything to drive him away, im afraid that if i do bulimia as my topic after all that he told me,he might be angry with me cuz im about to present on a very personal topic of his, publicly,especially when i KNOW how much it effected and hurt him. i just dont want to hurt him.i can alwaysdo another topic.wat do i do? am i overreacting? help

2006-10-28 15:48:44 · 2 answers · asked by ჯ Demi ჯ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

He doesnt trust me. Im giving him another week to prove himself trusting of me (meaning him trusting me). I never did anything to make him not trust me. He is getting really clingy and annoying lately. Should I dump him? I dont want to until at least Thursday.

2006-10-28 15:47:59 · 9 answers · asked by Sally 3 in Singles & Dating

I love breast milk!!! LOVE IT!! It doesn't taste like cow milk. However, my wife says that her breastmilk is for the baby not me. She has got really mad at me lately because I have been taking her bottled pumped breastmilk and pouring it in my cereal in the mornings, but the way I see it is that she has two breasts. One could be for me and the other could be for the baby. She doesn't see it that way. What can I do?

2006-10-28 15:47:18 · 22 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Only to those who went through at least one divorce: What was your mental attitude when you got married and when you got your divorce? Do you think that your mental attitude changed or the circumstances changed, in between the marriage the divorce?

2006-10-28 15:47:04 · 6 answers · asked by ben c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Because of this habit, we can't afford rehab and county funded rehab has crack users in it still using and no-one cares!!! We need help! Contacted intervention program and they never replied, all places cost 24,000.00 up front. What kind of crack addict or family has that kind of money?? HELP!

2006-10-28 15:47:03 · 10 answers · asked by dona45 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Am I right to think bad of him for this? All he says is he "doesn't want to get involved" yet won't give a straight answer as to why. The case is to get access to my 2 boys who've always regarded him as an uncle & he's seen them since my ex started refusing me access when she moved her new guy into their home. I respect his wish not to testify for either side, but why can't he be honest & upfront about the reason why?

2006-10-28 15:46:47 · 18 answers · asked by Mark K 3 in Marriage & Divorce