Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

I'm fourteen and some of my friends have been talking about having "random hookups" and i'm just wondering how that happens. How does something like that start? Like my friend has this guy she calls her f*ck-buddy (they don't actually have sex--just make out) and she doesn't know him very well at all, so I just don't understand how an "arrangement" like that starts.

if someone's just going to give me an opinion about how my friends should have "random hookups" or "f*ck-buddies" then i don't want to hear about that because i already know that. I'm just wondering how that would start.

2006-10-28 15:45:57 · 11 answers · asked by Julia Q 1 in Singles & Dating

I could go on forever, but lets just say that the last year has been an annus horriblis. I lost my home to foreclosure, had falling outs with several close ( I thought) friends, had an affair with a younger man who broke my heart even though he made me feel so good and made so many promises, started drinking to much and generally screwing up. I am a middle aged woman with a long suffering husband of 9 years. I am trying to hold it together, but it is getting harder and harder. I miss the friends I thought they were, but the rational part of me realizes that they were just partying buddies, not true friends.I feel so alone and betrayed, even though I have a husband who loves me, he is getting tired of the miserable me. I miss these people who obviously don't miss me.

2006-10-28 15:45:41 · 8 answers · asked by desertskieswoman 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have this guy i like bu i an in the 9th grade and he is in the 8th. but we never get to see eachother. i have his nuber and e mail and all but we never see eachother, a cople of days ago i met his brother and now her teases me because i like him. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!! PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-28 15:44:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend who is married. has three kids. he tends to flirt with this girl in the office alot. to me, i think when someone is taken or married, flirting should not be done. to him its ok. but recently i saw him flirting with the girl, where he was ticking her neck with his lips. to me that totally crossed the line. as a friends im pissed. i think its a disrespect to his wife and his kids. what do you guys think?

2006-10-28 15:44:05 · 19 answers · asked by funky_homosapien 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been hanging out for more than a year now and we do a lot of things together.. a lot. People would think that he's my boyfriend. I am sure he's my best friend and I dont want to think that I am special to him. We've never talked about what we really feel for each other or why we do things for each other. One time he told me he is not ready for a relationship, but his actions are so confusing...I dont know..I must be making a big deal out of it.

2006-10-28 15:43:45 · 19 answers · asked by hapi2bm3 2 in Friends

I am 25. I never had a date.
I often like a girl but I am either to shy or afraid to talk to her into going out with me.
Is it normal to feel like this at my age?
If not, How can I make myself ask a girl?

2006-10-28 15:43:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They're 3 days apart from each other but I want it to make it unforgettable

2006-10-28 15:43:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 15:42:40 · 7 answers · asked by brandy_boy_81 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm only 13 but I know I love this guy. He's done some things that hurt me, even if he didn't mean it, But I've never yelled at him for it. He's my best friend, And we both know each others lives, we understand each other. I want to know if this could possibly be true love.

2006-10-28 15:42:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They say, inside every older person is a younger person wondering...."WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED?"

LOL.....

2006-10-28 15:42:10 · 6 answers · asked by xxx 4 in Singles & Dating

You're the one for me.
Your eyes are like fire on a cold winter's day
Your soul burns within me
Your touch blossoms my innermost passions
And your voice melts my heart.

You're the one for me.
You are the key to unlocking
My most sacred fantasies.
You're the one for me,
The one that wakens me
When I'm at my deepest sleep
With your passionate ways,
The one that rivets me with
Your beautiful, unique face.

You're the one for me.
You are the one that I want to share
My life, my love with for all eternity.
I will love you always and forever.

You're the one for me.

2006-10-28 15:42:01 · 11 answers · asked by kasuma_101 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know when he would have the time, he works 7-7 and doesn't go out on weekends?

2006-10-28 15:40:58 · 20 answers · asked by trailsend 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im still in love with my ex and i heard from all of his friends that he still loves me. He also shows that he still loves me. when he hugs me he picks me up and twirls me in circles. and yestorday it rained and he picked me up and i said your wet and he said and your warm. i love him so much. i loved him since the we were younger! how can i tell him i still love him when everytime i get around him i get lost. like he talks and i just listen and forget everything except him. I tried yestorday afternoon but my doubts took over me! help

2006-10-28 15:40:02 · 10 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-28 15:39:29 · 9 answers · asked by punk_rock_freak2011 1 in Singles & Dating

the new rumor in my class is that i got with this guy , the thing is that i dont even talk to him . After that he has been acting really wierd with me . In every class that i have , i feel that someone is staring at me , and when i look back he looks away

does he like me or what?

2006-10-28 15:39:04 · 13 answers · asked by hello kitty =] 2 in Singles & Dating

I am fourteen & i know I loved my boyfriend but I just couldn't act like it. He was so crazy about me &when he said he loved me i just couldn't say it because i felt stupid sayign "i love you too". I hated hugging him at school when he left or something because i just felt stupid--i'd see him tomorrow! what's the big deal?

i would make out with him & everything & he always wanted to be in physical contact with me but sometimes at school i stopped him because i know tons of people including adults at me school and he'd have his hand on my butt a lot &i know it makes other people uncomfortable sometimes.
so now he broke up with me because i treated him badly
now i have no idea why i was like that & i'm just wondering if anyone has ideas or if they have an idea of a way i can try not to be like that? because now he has another girlfriend but they're not working out. if they break up and i can change, he might take me back. so i really want to change. psychoanalyze me! help! thanks!

2006-10-28 15:38:37 · 7 answers · asked by Julia Q 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 15:37:58 · 21 answers · asked by livvie 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well 4 u guys that r looking at this im around 5 and 5'3 im not fat a bit busty but im always just a friend to guys y is this? is there somethin wrong with me?

2006-10-28 15:37:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she only saw your pic

2006-10-28 15:36:09 · 10 answers · asked by marvellousdiva 1 in Friends

ok i cant stand when people say that since i dress preppy and do my hair im gay when im holding hands with my gf. and i dont understand why people call my gf a a fake ,slutty barbie doll.ok first of all just cause she likes to tan, and wears mini skirts, and is thin she gets called that. why?

2006-10-28 15:35:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother and brother found evidence suggesting that I look at porn online. (I think that she looked in the history folder on IE Explorer) She wants to question me about this. Should I tell her truth (yes, I do look at porn) or should I keep denying it? I'm thinking of devising some elaborate lie because my family is very conservative.

2006-10-28 15:35:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

lately, he has an attitude like if we don't like it then screw us all. He said if he wants to do something then he will do it and he does not need to consult anyone. I feel like this is not partnership. Am I wrong to want to be considered in things, even if it seems small?? I feel like I always try to do what is best for the whole family. What is going on here?

2006-10-28 15:35:17 · 15 answers · asked by Smilingcheek 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i used to be close freinds with this girl in school. then when i stop talking to one of the girls she hangs out wit, she totally stopped speaking to me. i think shes wrong because b4 all this, she was having money problems at home and i would bring in money for her every day. should i kill her with kindness or expose her as a phony? i feel like she used me for my money?

2006-10-28 15:33:47 · 18 answers · asked by Loves iT 2 in Friends

I'm a grandma again. I guess it's not the 10 millionth person to be born in the U.S. but that's OK, I'll love him just the same.

2006-10-28 15:33:44 · 6 answers · asked by kriend 7 in Friends

2006-10-28 15:33:18 · 8 answers · asked by dyme_peace2006 1 in Singles & Dating

i wanna check my e-mails and talk on the messenger without him watching over my shoulder and asking "who is this guy?". i am not doing anything wrong, not cheating nor flirting with anyone... i just like my own space. i just wanna be able to write my friends. but he gets suspicious.........

2006-10-28 15:33:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im going out w/ this guy i really like..well last friday he kissed me -on the cheek- I told my friends, and out of the 3 i told one is happy for me, and think me and my bf make a cute couple, but the other 2 say hes going to fast and that hes dorky and tht i should dump him. I dont think hes goin to fast! weve been goin out for like a month and a simple kiss on the cheek isnt too fast, what do you think? i dont think im really going to break up w/ him. its just tht everyone says that you should ALWAYS choose friends over boyfriend..... so I just want some more opinions

2006-10-28 15:32:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex about a month and a half ago. He was a total jerk when we were together, he neglected me all the time and pretty much took me for granted so I called it off. We had been together for a little over a year, and I told him to give me my space and pretty much to leave me the hell alone after I broke up with him.
He keeps " trying to be my friend" and I told him no thanks. Majority of my male friends keep telling me he is trying to get back with me and to avoid his phone calles, but I dont know if he really wants to be friends or is just using " the friendship as an excuse to stay in my life. What do you guys think? Do guys really offer to be their exs friend after she dumped them with an attempt to get back together. I dont get it? I dont plan on talking to him I just want to know. Thanks

2006-10-28 15:32:36 · 10 answers · asked by SassyChick 2 in Singles & Dating

I have deep love for this man and for some reason I do believe that fate will bring us back together again. . . I don't know how or when it will happen. Is what I feel just a result of the fact that I love him and miss or is it something that is destined to happen.

He was my first true love and nothing, absolutely noting has been more painful for me than his loss.

2006-10-28 15:32:24 · 7 answers · asked by inlove 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A few days ago a girl told me I was hot. Now that I try to speak to her seems she's avoiding me. What should I do?

2006-10-28 15:31:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating