i used to be close freinds with this girl in school. then when i stop talking to one of the girls she hangs out wit, she totally stopped speaking to me. i think shes wrong because b4 all this, she was having money problems at home and i would bring in money for her every day. should i kill her with kindness or expose her as a phony? i feel like she used me for my money?
2006-10-28 15:33:47 · 18 answers · asked by Loves iT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No need to do either,
Just ignore her, if she see's you hanging out having fun, and enjoying yourself, she'll feel so guilty it'll hurt.
And trust me her money problems will only get worse.
And if she tries to talk to you , give her the chance to appologize, but don't give her money, she doesn't deserve to make a sucker out of you!
I am glad your thinking with your head, alot of girls don't.
Good luck honey!
2006-10-28 15:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have been doing what she needed to do at the time you helped her. Don't feel used or the need to confront her, that's only going to make you feel bad. Let it stand as an act of random kindness on your part and let nature take it's course. I think you will be viewed as a very special person. Forget about the money aspect , what good is that? You were especially kind, let that sink in and leave it at that. Your reputation as a special person will precede you in life, I have no doubt you would help any one close to you. Good for you!
2006-10-28 22:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by crkristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill her with kindness. People who use other people will always get what they give out. She may have not been intentionally using you. And she may not be a bad person. But if she is, one of these days something will happen to her that you will even feel sorry for her for. Let it go and be the bigger person here.
2006-10-28 22:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and move on... she'll may need your money again and when she does... ask her why she's not getting it from her new friends... there's a whole world of people out there... be choosy who you pick as friends... I just got burned by a friend because I told her no more loans and she dumped me... it goes to show you how people can be... hope this helps
2006-10-28 22:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
w0w she is kinda mean but i think it is always better to kill her with kindness because than she cant acuse you of being mean. also find some other friends that dont eat up your heart adn money!
good luck
2006-10-28 22:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by Gugi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about just moving on and finding real friends?
2006-10-28 22:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill with kindness is much better to get to her!
2006-10-28 22:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by happy1here♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its a waste of your time and by the way are you a bank or were you trying to buy her friendship and if you were and she didn't then hey you can buy mine,I'll be your friend.my dad once said:oh the scorn of a women.
2006-10-28 22:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by m.w.meredith@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bringing in money to her at school wasn't right...ignore her if she wants to be a b i t c h then let her!
2006-10-28 22:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by spitney12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were used, get over it and move on.
2006-10-28 22:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋