I'm only 13 but I know I love this guy. He's done some things that hurt me, even if he didn't mean it, But I've never yelled at him for it. He's my best friend, And we both know each others lives, we understand each other. I want to know if this could possibly be true love.
2006-10-28 15:42:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, you are too young to for love and anykind of romantic relations. you should be friends but not lovers. you have to grow up a bit. in about 3 or 4 years you can date
2006-10-28 15:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It very well could be, but it's most likely infatuation. Or just a deep emotional attachment. Love is not just having feeling for someone, love is sacrificing ones own feelings because they don't want to hurt the other partner, there's a lot of give and take, and really you guys may love each other with out a doubt, but you guys are not mature enough to understand really the meaning of love. You may have just gone thru puberty or are going thru it as we speak, you need time to actually mature into a young woman to really know what you in life, and in a relationship, you 2 may always be best of friends, and have a strong emotional bond thru out the rest of your life, but it doesn't mean you are going to marry this person, just because you know each other well. Once you get a little bit older you will look back at this question and go "omg what was i thinking." I've been in love 1000 times thru out highschool and thought i couldn't live with out this person, and i had to be with them forever, well yeah they are long gone. I moved on. You will in time figure out whether or not it's true love, and if it really is, then ultimatly you 2 will end up together in the future even if you go separate ways for a while.
2006-10-28 22:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by DnBprincess850 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, you can experience love at ay age, i myself experienced it only once at the age of 13. You should grasp on to love because it may only come once. If any of the answers to these questions are no, then you have douths about your love and if you have douths about it then it is an impure love. Have your hearts become eachothers being, are you souls so untouchable by the darkness of the world that nothing could seperate them, is he your inner strength, and do you feel the pain that is trasmitted into him?
There are so many more question you must answer to know, you can only truely evaluate your feelings for each other, not you friend/family, only you can.
2006-10-28 22:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those rare situations where I can hear the words of my parents coming out of my mouth - Talk about freaky...
Anyway, I think at 13 you're capable of truly loving. I'm sure you truly love your family. I know you truly love your pets, if you have any. But I warn you not to get too wrapped up with a relationship this early in your life. At 13, I know the feelings you have are strong. You have a lot of time ahead of you to complicate your life with love. Finish being a kid before you jump into being an adult. After-all, you will be an adult long enough as it is.
2006-10-28 22:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Danno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am much older now in my 30s but I fell in love at 13 with a boy who I still think about. If you two are friends then take things slow and just enjoy being together and you must ask before you take the next step "is it worth losing him as a friend?" if things did not work out?
2006-10-28 22:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by sands6270 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't never let any1 tell u u have 2 b 18 and over 2 b in luv.I fell in luv when I was 9 goin on 10 so love iz 4 young people 2.Go 4 it!
2006-10-28 22:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by Colts Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a commitment as well as a feeling. So if you both have the strength and drive to keep the commitment going then yes you can have real love. Otherwise you are just experiencing the feeling of being in love and not the substance.
2006-10-28 22:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is not too young. It's as real and intense as love can possible get.
I suggest you read or see the play by Shakespeare -- Romeo and Juliet. Juliette was 13 and Romeo was a year older.
2006-10-28 23:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how u define REAL love. Only time will tell if this is a relationship that will last. My advice for you however, a little off topic, but if u havnt already DONT HAVE SEX WITH HIM. Wait until you're older so you know for sure if you guys will be together or not.
2006-10-28 22:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jae L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, well I'm 14 and i was with a guy who i would always tell him that i loved him , and i was sure of it too, so this was a summer thing, but i went into highschool... wow did it change! so many guys to choose from, i moved on,, so the best thing is to just wait it out, if your happy now, good, if your happy 20 years from now good, what i'm saying is, be happy now, see how u feel later
2006-10-28 22:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋