Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

I have a friend, special friend to me. we became steady but broke up giving me a reason that she can't love me. i said its ok and i understand why. I put too much commitment in this relationship that if i wrote it down it will be a story book longer than the Da vinci's code! she knows i gave her lots of commitment but she repays me with somethings heartbreaking. she confess that she likes another guy too. i wanted to leave her for that but thinking again its like having a 1000 reason for me to stay with her but 1 reason for me to leave her. i try to handle this problem by calming myself down and try not to break down. and the irony is that i cant leave her but being with her hurts me lots. Now I'm confused....

2006-10-28 15:19:59 · 9 answers · asked by smileefacee_2 1 in Friends

my parents got devorced two years ago and are still fighting about it all. my dad moved to west virginia and my mom (who has costody) is still in ohio. also my dad has gone out wiyh three women since the divorce. i need some help understandin this!! serious awnsers only please, thanks
:)smile?

2006-10-28 15:19:23 · 12 answers · asked by gurlcatz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I admire a boy at my school so much,I think he's the cutest boy ever,he has a lovely personality and a sense of justice!but I'm not sure if admiring him means falling in love with him...what do you guys think?(I only talk to him in class,I never go out with him)

2006-10-28 15:18:40 · 10 answers · asked by pu1988withpu1988 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 15:17:46 · 8 answers · asked by momo 2 in Singles & Dating

If a guy calls you pretty much everyday and text messages you and talks to you really really late at night and is always asking you who you like, that means he likes you right?

2006-10-28 15:17:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my exbf found out that i might still have feelings for him. what do i do? he said to my friend that it was weird. i don't think that i still like him.... i just wanted to be friends w/ him again. after we broke up we stoped talking. and i miss or friendship a lot. and now someone told him that i liked him!! it's not true! what should i do. i don't want to go up to him and be like "don't worry... i don't like u!!" that would be awful!! please help me!! what do i do?

2006-10-28 15:14:46 · 21 answers · asked by Emy 3 in Singles & Dating

I love girls that are virgin, it shows they can be a good future mate.
But is the are any possibility to get such kind of decent Ladies? who are in their early/mid 20's?

2006-10-28 15:14:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 15:13:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a girl u like says no to u asking her out becuase she says she doesnt know u well enough yet and it would be better to be just friends now...how can i show her that i am a really sweet guy and prove it to her instead of just saying it. this girl gives me butterflies just thinking about her. how can i prove to her that i am the guy she is exactly looking for? i think she wants to give me a chance but is still afraid of commitment. she is single n shy BTW

2006-10-28 15:13:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have known each other only for a few days, but I have made up my mind to ask her to marry me. Here's the plan: I have a house under construction and it's nearing completion. I haven't told her anything about the house. I am thinking of taking her to the house, have her open the front door, show her around, ask her if I can hold her hand and propose to her.

Ques:

1. It will be around the middle of December that I'll be taking her to the place. Is 2 months of knowing each other a little too early?
2. I went through a lot of difficulties during the process of house construction... loan approval, land acquisition, etc, and I didnt borrow a single penny from my Dad or my friends. I cut down on my personal expenses, lived on a strict budget, and it has finally paid off. I wish to share this with her when I am showing her around the house because I want her to know. Will it sound like I am bragging or is it alright?
3. Should I keep the ring box closed or open when giving to her?

2006-10-28 15:12:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

so here’s the deal. Im a 25/m and shes 25. we have been dating off and on for about 3 months now, and i can say that there are no problems between her and I. Shes an RN, and I am in nursing school so between the two of us we are both really busy, and we understand that, however, every time I want to spend some time with her she always has something else to do ( family thing, going out etc etc) Im just as busy as she is, but im bending over backwards trying to make time to see her, but she doesn’t seem to do the same for me. Im lucky if i see her once every 2 weeks and it really annoys me, but if she really was not interested in me why would she keep calling every couple of days? I would think she wouldn’t bother. Anyone else have/ is having thins same problem with the person you are seeing? Thanks

2006-10-28 15:12:32 · 3 answers · asked by WHO_WHAT 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 15:11:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm divorced and my ex and i have 3kids together and I still think about him although I divorced him.Sometimes I wonder if I did the right thing sometimes I feel I did the right thing because he told me he didnt want me anymore but than I think he said this because he was angry.

2006-10-28 15:11:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i now have a boyfriend he likes me i like him. he asked me to the dance i said yes. we r now boyfrirend and girlfriend. how do i not break it.

2006-10-28 15:10:56 · 7 answers · asked by Italian girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my childs father asked me to an event.I agreed to go.Well he has treated me like [ure sh*t while pregnant.We agreed 2 work on us and he apologized for the treatment.He barely take care of his resp.So I made the choice to move to another state to better myself & my children(he said we would be a family but now has all of a sudden he's not ready)so since I dont have to wait for him I want to take the help I have.He is pissed about the choice for me to move and starts being mean.So our child has to go get shots and he arrives.(its raining outside)He was supposed to take our child & spend time with her.So he says to me "my mom said it wouldnt be a good idea for me to take her today b/c she's gonna be running a temp.So I said fine.So He brings up the choice to move and starts insulting me & telling me Im running away from resposibilty! So I went OFF! I told him to go to HELL b/c he promised a family he's not ready for & I have to pick up his slack! & I will do it the best way know..........

2006-10-28 15:09:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay hes coming over im in some sexy outfit and its super small and i have a robe on and im 18 and hes 20 well my mom is 42 and shes just like me me and him have been going out for like 3 months or so and i love him alot and he wont ever have sex w/ its wierd he acts like he wants it he watches porn and stuff whats the problem??????? HELP GUYS ONLY


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2006-10-28 15:08:55 · 12 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

I started to like this best friend of mine three months ago. Finally I decided to tell her how I really feel for her in a couple of weeks. However I'm not sure if I should wait longer or not. Personally I think just asking her out before actually telling her how I feel is better than just take her out one night and tell her about it. What should I do? Any help is appreciated!

2006-10-28 15:08:23 · 5 answers · asked by yaoliu89 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 15:08:02 · 6 answers · asked by sunset_2014_10047 1 in Friends

im still in love with my ex and i heard from all of his friends that he still loves me. He also shows that he still loves me. when he hugs me he picks me up and twirls me in circles. and yestorday it rained and he picked me up and i said your wet and he said and your warm. i love him so much. i loved him since the we were younger! how can i tell him i still love him when everytime i get around him i get lost. like he talks and i just listen and forget everything except him. I tried yestorday afternoon but my doubts took over me! help

2006-10-28 15:07:50 · 1 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i broke up this morning, but how do i get him to back off???

2006-10-28 15:07:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-28 15:07:22 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

My girlfriend of 2 yrs is all off a sudden finding mistakes at watever i do.She said a lot of stuff that hurt me.When i ask her if i should wait till she regains normality...she says its up to me .She cant assure me that she will endup with me even if i decided to wait.Her reasoning is"no matter how much u love a person,its not necessary that u will/should endup with that person"I was really taken back when she said this.Is she indirectly trying to convey something?Should i hang on or just let her go??

2006-10-28 15:06:59 · 6 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughters pics are on monday.. and i went and bought her a new dress and some panty hose and shoes and stuff you know some cute lil hair ties...well her bangs are so long so i wanted to get them cut and get her trimmed up....well i went in and told the girl cut half an inch off the bottom and cut her bangs well my husband stayed with her i ran down to the doller store he brougth her back...and its the worst thing ive ever seen in my life...she completely butched her hair...someone even called her a boy when we were at walmart...and then later on we seen his freinds and there like dude what happend to her hair did she do it herself...and they still charged us 12 95 for her hair cut and she didnt even get it washed...and shes only 3 and it was already shoulder link i just wanted it trimmed...would you be mad...an d what would you do about it??? cause im highly pissed!!!

2006-10-28 15:05:35 · 23 answers · asked by cutenwild1769 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm having an XYZ affair.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/XYZ_Affair

2006-10-28 15:05:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there is a boy i like he is very handsome he talks to me but when i see him i feel nervious and some time i smile alot . then he always ask me if i crazy , what should i do ?

2006-10-28 15:04:40 · 2 answers · asked by Rohanna 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so we meet like a year ago. i was an exchanged student to her school, and all the people there were well preps and posers! so i met her. we get along great and she is like the coolest person i've ever meet. well i am what the world like to classify as punk, i wear alot of black, listen to rock music (which is stupid cuz i dont like labels, so i am myself) and she was a girly girl, preppy, cheerleader, pop sinsation princess. so once i started hanging with me she slowly started to change into a rocker chic, until she met her boyfriend named jay. that's when she turned emo (yes sucidal). well her mom is completely convinced that i am the cause of her change from prep to emo! the other day i asked her to go with me to somewhere and she didnt come. it turned out that she ditched me to hang with her boyfriend jay. well that night her mom called my mom and she said that she didnt want me to go around her daughter ever again. she said that i was a bad influence. what should i do?

2006-10-28 15:04:22 · 10 answers · asked by SaDiE 2 in Friends

Ok i never really care about porn, untell now my boyfriend watches it so much and at 1st i didnt care, but now i do. I talk to him very calm and told him if he want this relationship to work he need to slow down on watching porn. (i said he can still watch it but dont so much) . well he started going crazy on me and yelling and saying he is not gonna change, i dont know what to do about it, i dont want to brake up with him over it, but also i dont want to be with someone that is so into porn.

2006-10-28 15:03:54 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All actions of 2 men I've been seeing (kind of) say they are crazy about me, except..... they only ask me out about once a month. I call, give hints, even have asked them over (not at the same time of course), so what's up? Do men like playing hard to get or what?

2006-10-28 15:03:37 · 12 answers · asked by Country Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

It doesn’t matter anymore.


I used to sit and wonder to myself,
what it was, I did so wrong.

Could I have treated you different?
or wrote you, a beautiful song.

I loved you with all of my heart,
and I believed, you truly loved me.

You used to say, I was your true love,
and there was no place, you’d rather be.

How could a love so wonderful and pure,
change, from the day we first met.

Was it I, who did you wrong,
or a friend, I will never forget.

But now, it truly doesn’t matter anymore,
why, you hurt and cheated on me.

Because I know, deep in my heart,
It wasn’t I, who cheated on thee.

So I just want you to know,
that if you ever, think of us two.

My life was truly changed, my dear,
and I deserve, a lot better than you.



By: Kenny P aka- Cobra

2006-10-28 15:03:03 · 12 answers · asked by Cobra 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 15:02:40 · 10 answers · asked by o7senior 1 in Singles & Dating