my exbf found out that i might still have feelings for him. what do i do? he said to my friend that it was weird. i don't think that i still like him.... i just wanted to be friends w/ him again. after we broke up we stoped talking. and i miss or friendship a lot. and now someone told him that i liked him!! it's not true! what should i do. i don't want to go up to him and be like "don't worry... i don't like u!!" that would be awful!! please help me!! what do i do?
2006-10-28 15:14:46 · 21 answers · asked by Emy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that your friend mistook what she heard as you wanting to get back together. Just let him know that you do miss the friendship and if he doesn't mind being friends, then you could talk again.
2006-10-28 15:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen Relax,
If you like him you like him Right!
But stop telling your friends.
And if he asks you about it just say, that of course you still have feelings for him , everyone does after a relationship has ended.
I mean if someone has that kida power to turn love on and off , well then lets just say they never were in love to begin with.
especially with Sex- If you have sex together, and you see that person 10 years from now you think,
We had sex!
and you can be married and everything, talking fine like nothing happend and , your still thinking
We had SEX!
It takes time to get over someone, everyone knows that. And as far as friendship, honey it ain't gonna happen,
And as hard as this might be to hear, you most likely won't get back together either.
But you can just smile everytime you see him and act like your having fun, talk and hang out with a bunch of friends and stuff,
this will deffinatley make him feel like he's missing something.
And it could just be the trick you've been lookin for to get him back.
And if it doesn't we'll at least you'll be having fun Right!
And him- He'll be eating his heart out!
Trust me this is the way to go!
OH and don't even mention that you know he knows about all this other crap, and make sure you tell the girl or guy who told him how cute you think another guy is , ( you know the imagiary guy you met at the mall)
UMMMmmmm HUMmmm! And boy is he hot!
Get it.
GL sweetie
2006-10-28 22:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down! try to get ur friendship back with him and make sure he gets the point that you don't like him don't get to close to him and just let him know you miss talking to him and you wanna stay in touch as a friend unless you find out your true feelings for him.
2006-10-28 22:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by *Delishiz* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would embrace another relationship with a man OPENLY so that he can know about it (even if it isn't as serious as you make it out to be). Next, approach him and explain that obviously you are over him romantically, but you miss the friendship you shared and you want to work on re-building it.
2006-10-28 22:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do...is not to do anything. Getting all frantic like you are is just showing that you do like him. The best thing to do is just avoid him and let it be like if nothing happened. Forget your friendship with him it will not work, if you do start a friendship with him again you will only start to like him even more.
2006-10-28 22:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by saosin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Just be like you like him enough to be his friend. Let him know that you miss yall friendship, you miss talking to him.But let him you don't have feelings for him as a bf, and if he can't be your friend then just move on, you tried.
2006-10-28 22:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say you like him but not as a boyfriend but as a friend and you still want the great friendship you had before
2006-10-28 22:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by W H I T E [ s k y * ] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing will be dont do anything stay neutral and dont react u will automatically send the mssg clearly , if he comes up to u to ask then be idifferent to the question and say OMG who is spreading all this nonsense no dear it is not true, thats it , simple and true
2006-10-28 22:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by dax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to him and be like, i miss our friendship and i don't like you any more than a friend i just want to be your friend
2006-10-28 22:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by cj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we tend to miss the great parts of our past. once you take the hook out of the fish, release it. if there was a true kinship, somewhere down the line it will come back to you. it worked for me.
2006-10-28 22:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by borrowedtime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋