I'm having an XYZ affair.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/XYZ_Affair
2006-10-28 15:05:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't inhale!
2006-10-28 15:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"XYZ"--whatever that means! I saw the link and still don't know.! You're having an affair because you are needing something from your relationship with your wife and you are seeking it with someone else? I'll assume this is going on.
That sucks. Did you try to work it out with your wife? Sounds like you need to confront some things with her. The affair is only dealing with the symptoms of that dissatisfaction and not the cause. You will end up unsatisfied in the end or still troubled, I say, because the trouble is really in your marriage. What''s up with the weird reference? Can't you just say what sort of affair you're having and not be so cryptic?
Get out of the affair. That's a cowardly way of dealing with troubles. Confront the real problem. And forget about the alphabet thing.
2006-10-28 22:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your wife has the right to know.
an XYZ affair is different from the usual affair that we know in married life. you confused me.
2006-10-28 22:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by math 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares that you are a diplomat? also, why are you asking? if you care about your wife and love her still-then stop the affair. If you want this other woman, love her and feel it may be what you've always wanted then leave your wife.
2006-10-28 22:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by Heather W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a diplomat of course your wife understands it's just that she don't want to know.
2006-10-28 22:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Cindy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that i've read what an XYZ affair is, i doubt your having one
:D
2006-10-28 22:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself what would you do if the table was turned. How would you feel if your wife was stepping out on you? Grow up, love your wife and yourself.
2006-10-28 22:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean your act and hope that your wife never finds out
2006-10-28 22:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could start by thinking about this girl your having sex with. Would you like to get her pregnant? Could you leave your wife for her? Will she ultimately satisfy you completely? If not, you better break it off and go home!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-28 22:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by precious girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a diplomat then i am the first woman president........get a life
2006-10-28 22:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares!! if she's French, she'll understand!
by the by, she's having her own affair!!
it all evens out in the end doesn't it?
2006-10-28 22:08:16 · answer #11 · answered by itsmeee2006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋