Ok i never really care about porn, untell now my boyfriend watches it so much and at 1st i didnt care, but now i do. I talk to him very calm and told him if he want this relationship to work he need to slow down on watching porn. (i said he can still watch it but dont so much) . well he started going crazy on me and yelling and saying he is not gonna change, i dont know what to do about it, i dont want to brake up with him over it, but also i dont want to be with someone that is so into porn.
2006-10-28 15:03:54 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it interferes in everyday life you should break up with him. Porn is addictive but can be controllable. Make an ultimatum to him, if he wants you he will try to save the relationship or leave him for someone with more self-control.
2006-10-31 23:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Minot_1997 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-30 07:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve someone better I had a thing for porn whe I was single but I did give it up when I met my now wiofe I think it is distasteful and disrestpectful to women and of course degrading
tell him how you feel if he freaks out then maybe you should cut
him from your life and find a honest guy that loves spending time with you and staring at you beauitful body etc. He sounds like a
pig. Really do you want to live around a guy that just sits and watches porn all the time or you do you want a relationship. It sounds to me like you want the later and he is not into that sort of commitment say adios and find a good guy and let them know from the start that porn is something you dislike. Really if he freaked he has a obcession and it may be something that will not change unless he gets some help. God Bless and hope you can figure out what to do.
2006-10-28 15:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh, the myopia... Have you no idea of how porn could save relationships? Or elsewhere should I say, of porn's benefits? I speak in general here... Every guy who doesn't get to watch porn misses a part of his life, particularly his teen and bachelor years. Watching bongo flicks is nothing else but a way of exploring... And I hope you won't be shocked if I tell you that there are also ladies who watch porn (for fun). You need not to bore a hole into porn just to cite anything wrong in it.
Mind you... From what I've read, you really exhibit acts of lack of maturity. Try to be broad-minded about this one, girl. Seldom you will find straight guys who don't watch porn whether it's for fun or to alleviate their depression towards some things nowadays.
I hope I answered your query. Have a nice day, good luck, and Rock on!
2006-10-28 15:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by Grifter Heavenspike 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen up Jess, porn is like a drug. If you get addicted to it, it's not quite easy to quit. If you really love him, be with him all the time. When he wants to watch, change the topic and talk about yourselves, how beautiful you are and how handsome he is then he would slow down on his porn for a while. It's a gradual process. It just won't stop in an instant. But if he won't listen, then just tell him how bad and sorry you feel for him and let him know that you're not ready for a guy like him and then leave. I just hope you'll find the right and good guy who is not selfish but rather cares lots about you and only you. Be careful and Good luck...
2006-10-29 21:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by ttoonnyywwiissee4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him over it, its cheating it is. I know he was doing it prior to meeting you but thats exactly the point to he wont change he telling you the truth he wont stop and if it bothers you now its not going to get any better and i'd rather have a guy with the guts to mess with me instead of fake stuff he's probly insecure or thinking about weird stuff anyways. there is just something wrong w/a guy looking a porn w/a live girl in the other room move on sweetie GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-28 15:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
All guys love porn, and even many women nowadays. So you'll have to learn to live with that. But is he watching it 24/7? Is he watching porn in your face instead practicing it with you?
2006-10-28 15:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Every guy looks at porn. But this guy sounds a little over the top...and low rent. Why don't you leave this boy to his porn and go find a man who wants a real woman.
2006-10-28 15:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2006-10-28 19:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am into porn, and married, I am not deep into it, like I was wehn I was not married, but this is a area hard to work out. If he loves porn so much, then you have to choose if your wanting to be involed with him and porn or not. Secondly, in my case, I don't look at porn like a adiction, which what your bf sounds like.
2006-10-28 15:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by joseph c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋