Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

when i turned 16 i promise myself that i will not try to have sex till i will got married, but now i have a problem... when i see hot girl walk/run by my buddy down there wakes up and i got very excited and then i remembered what i promise myself.......... and i starting feel guild for it.

2006-10-28 14:42:55 · 18 answers · asked by Luv Bug 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 14:41:46 · 14 answers · asked by J B 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this one guy at school i am kinda interested in. We have the same class and he would always look and smile at me. We see each other a lot around campus but sometimes he would pretend that he doesn't see me. One day he came to work and asked me a bunch of questions about my ex bf, yes just about my ex. Do you think he likes me?

2006-10-28 14:41:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship for 2 1/2 years. in may I found out my partner cheated.ultimately, I forgave her. yesterday i found out that she was still in contact with the mistress. We changed our number months ago because of this but she claims they've just spoke on the phone a few times. What would you do?

2006-10-28 14:40:57 · 40 answers · asked by bangieb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'll admit... I'm a guy, so I have no clue if she does or not.

We met each other this year in August (we're both in 9th grade). Ever since, she has always come up and started talking to me every day. She always laughs at EVERYTHING I say, no matter how stupid, and she always sits by me on the bus. She also takes me aside to meet her friends from other schools, she'll invite me to go with her to talk with her best friends, and she'll also drop a conversation with her friends to come talk to me.... does she like me? All my friends say they feel "vibes" when we're together...

I think the answer is yes, but I don't want to look like an idiot if I ask her out and she doesn't like me.

2006-10-28 14:40:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 14:40:23 · 20 answers · asked by kellydarcey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do guys (and this is a general statement) alway s want to be in control they cant just let the woman be in control

2006-10-28 14:40:13 · 7 answers · asked by dilemma 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 14:39:21 · 16 answers · asked by Gret 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Today while I was in the mall i ran into a dude that I use to talk to about 2 years ago. We bascially stopped talking back then because I was into a different boy at that time.Well i waved him down and gave him a hug. HE IS SO FINE NOW .After chit chatting for a minute he told me to put his number in my phone. I was wondering should I call him tonight or tomorrow I really dont want to come off as desperate or all in love with him!!! How long would you wait to call a dude after geting his phone number???

2006-10-28 14:39:13 · 10 answers · asked by lady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I often see a girl and feel there is some kind of attraction. But often I held back from going to her and ask her out because I fear she might just be interested in one night sex and nothing more. How can I tell if a girl is interested for love relationship and not sex?

2006-10-28 14:39:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just don't see what the problem is. Why do people get upset when it's a guy who's like that? Just because someone happens to be gay or bi doesn't mean that thier attracted to every man or woman they see! It's always the people who are gay and bi bashers who think that. It's not like Bisexual people are terrorists or anything. How come a guy can't be Bi, or even gay if he chooses. Whats the issue here?

2006-10-28 14:39:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to help my sister. She is so unhappy with her husband and has asked him to leave, told him she doesnt love him etc.. on many occasions. The problem is he won't leave, and he knows she can't leave either,she has 2 children and pets and has a low paying job. If she were to leave she would have to accept council accomodation in another town and be away from her family and friends. She cannot buy him out of the house as she only has a low paying job.. and he wouldnt agree to it even if she could.. i cant understand him, if someone told me they didnt love me.. you wouldnt see me for dust.. any help would be most gratefully received

2006-10-28 14:38:56 · 19 answers · asked by Jacqui 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel so lonely... I don't really go out much and if i do im all alone. My close friends live far away and i not see them much.
Im 25yrs and i still don't have a girlfriend. Im not desperate but im getting very concerned now.
I was told im a quite good looking and nice guy. Any suggestions? :-)

2006-10-28 14:38:46 · 14 answers · asked by Ray 1 in Singles & Dating

girls that are really flirtatious and girly but act like they are really weak.... or athletic girls who are kinda tomboyish but they can have fun with

2006-10-28 14:38:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well there's a HOT guy his name is Hunter. I think he like's me but I'm not sure. Anyway if you have anything, email it to me. Thanks.

2006-10-28 14:37:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy gives you his number, but doesn't ask for yours, does it mean he's not interested and just being polite??

2006-10-28 14:37:08 · 13 answers · asked by sodiums 2 in Singles & Dating

This may make me seem like and *** but i am just saying how i feel and i want to know why people feel the way they do.

there is a family gathering tonight sience one of mu uncles will only be here for a few hours and i am not going. i do not want to go. i even made sure i did not tell my father (my parents are divirced but he still likes to see my mothers family) till earlier today because i knew he would make me go if i told him earlier. so now he is annoyed with me.

is what i did really that bad? all i did was full fill my wish of not seeing my family. i went to a gathering realier in the year and for me thats more than enough. i dont know. i just do not want to see my family, is that really so bad? its not that their bad people, i just do not connect with them and it feels more like a chore than a pleasure. so how do you think? why do most of you falve family so much? say what you feel so maby i can understand better.

2006-10-28 14:36:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is a kiss more passionate or s e x?

2006-10-28 14:36:22 · 12 answers · asked by Nessy 2 in Singles & Dating

yesterday, i was outside in my yard raking leaves. i live in buffalo and we recently had a snow storm. its melted now but there are branches everywhere. so i noticed a broken branch up in the tree in my front yard, it was broken but it still managed to stay tangled in other branches and not fall to the ground. so fearful it would fall out of the tree and on my car i climbed up the tree to remove it. while in the tree, up about 20 ft, i lost my footing and plummeted to the ground. i guess i was unconscious, but when i came to i felt a terrible pain in my right testicle. i immediatly realized what happened. i fell on a pair of bush trimming shears. they penetrated my pants and then my testicle. i went inside and washed the wound. the gash is large enough though, so that the testicle keeps falling out of it. im not sure what to do. will this heal with time? could this become infected?

2006-10-28 14:35:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-28 14:35:19 · 9 answers · asked by Catherine 14 2 in Friends

he's my bf 4 almost 6 months now..and he told me 2-3 times that he loves me...but when we go 2 one's of his friends party ,he almost leave me alone..& I feel I'm all by myself...I try 2 feel god,2 have a good time..but in the end..I feel so lonely..why is he such a..?!He told me that he has special feelings 4 me.. but at the party he wants 2 b the dj-and he ALWAYS leave me alone.and whn I'm dancing with him..he's looking at the comp....or at something else..and then he asks me why I'm upset.?!!IHe loves me or not..?I don't want 2 admit but.. is ...painful 4 me...please,HELP ME...!I need advice!!

2006-10-28 14:35:15 · 6 answers · asked by mia 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, do u girls care more for personality or looks? cuz see i dont understand, im an ok guy in looks, i have green eyes 5'11, brown eyes, im average body type, im shy, and nutting, some of the girls dont find me interestin, i mean i have good feelings, im a great student, respectful, and caring,and inteligent can some one plz tell me wat am i doing wrong cuz i dont get it, do u girls go for the looks or personality? for the bad direspectful guys or respectful/ caring guys?

2006-10-28 14:34:16 · 42 answers · asked by carlosofia2000 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 14:34:15 · 15 answers · asked by pookie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so.. yesterday i had a halloween party all was well than an hour into the party we disided to have a water fight we were playing and having fun 4 friends and i desided to gang up on 2 other people as soon as we throw 4 balloons we relized that they dint want to play anymore so i yelled stop they stoped and the to girls started crying the other guy desided he was going to go home but it was far away so i walked with him and i got him to come back to the house we than relized that one of the girls was threting to kill her self now half of my friends hate me and i dont see why iv asked everyone they say cause i kiked tham out when my mum made me tell tham to go home now there all angry and what did i do NOTHING! it was all her fault and they HATE me for it what can i do to get over this and how to make friends with tham i dont see why i should say sorry to the girl ither cause it was her falut not mine please plase plase reply i need help
thanks, love caitlin

2006-10-28 14:34:02 · 10 answers · asked by Caitlin H 2 in Friends

i like him alot still but he's going out with his ex (again/ on and off since 5th grade and we're in 9th!!!) what should i do???

2006-10-28 14:33:04 · 9 answers · asked by walks with goats 2 in Singles & Dating

Today while I was in the mall i ran into a dude that I use to talk to about 2 years ago. We bascially stopped talking back then because I was into a different boy at that time.Well i waved him down and gave him a hug. HE IS SO FINE NOW .After chit chatting for a minute he told me to put his number in my phone. I was wondering should I call him tonight or tomorrow I really dont want to come off as desperate or all in love with him!!! How long would you wait to call a dude after geting his phone number???

2006-10-28 14:32:53 · 8 answers · asked by lady 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems that my older daughter (16) often 'spanks' my younger son (12) on his bottom. It doesn't seem like it's out of anger, but rather just for fun or whenever she 'feels like it.'

Is this something to be concerned with? Does anybody have this in their family, or had it done to them/done it to anybody else?

2006-10-28 14:31:40 · 8 answers · asked by Kelly C 1 in Friends

It seems that my older daughter (16) often 'spanks' my younger son (12) on his bottom. It doesn't seem like it's out of anger, but rather just for fun or whenever she 'feels like it.'

Is this something to be concerned with? Does anybody have this in their family, or had it done to them/done it to anybody else?

2006-10-28 14:31:38 · 8 answers · asked by Kelly C 1 in Family

2006-10-28 14:30:45 · 17 answers · asked by mercedes t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have been talking to a guy and have gone out a couple times, he's talked about having sex but no strings attached what is a kind way to tell him that its not what i want (he's been thru a hard time and is over his ex but still has to see his ex because of the kids) i dont think he wants a relationship because of his ex but yet he wants a sexual relationship with nothing else. dont wanna hurt his feelings but dont want to lead him on either. theres no way out i see it just going to have to tell him right out and not be friends anymore...or does anyone else have idea if its happened to u

2006-10-28 14:29:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating