Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

Im 17 my boyfriend is 18. We go 2 an alternative school, i guess thats what its called over there. IM from argentina, anyway its a school you go to when u flunked the real school.
Thing is, im studying and i wanna get him 2 study. I wanna get him 2 work and exercise. Not for me. But cuz hes depressed and i used 2 b like him, till i got up and did stuff. And i want him 2 do so 2. Or else i just cant keep the relationship going. i dont know if anyone understood, but thats the deal anyway. thanx

2006-10-28 13:52:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anoukens 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met her on my course she’s really nice, and she hangs around with me now but the person she was close to last year is still on the course and when she sees him with his new mates she laughs at them having fun like she would like to be part of it, I’m not ‘fun’ so she must be bored I don’t want her hanging around with me just because she feels I would be upset if she left, and I don’t want her to feel trapped with me.
So should I push her away so she can go and be with her mate and not feel guilty about leaving me?
But I like having here around and its hard for me to make friends, I can tell her why I’m being cold, and I don’t really want to push her away but I want her to feel free to leave me, I’m fine on my own, I don’t want her to be bored for the next year? What do I do?

2006-10-28 13:52:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

They are aged 17, 22 and 25 and I want to get then something special not just the usual jewellry or photoframe. Wondering if anyone had any quirky or inspirational gifts they had given to their bridesmaids as a thank you.

2006-10-28 13:52:33 · 28 answers · asked by tangle 2 in Weddings

2006-10-28 13:52:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she couldn't make it over a couple of times. (she's from the uk, i'm in the states) mostly she's amazing. but i feel hurt. she's like 'just tell me what to do and i'll do it'

2006-10-28 13:52:19 · 6 answers · asked by bobwilliams283 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I had broke up with this married man, and now he wouldnt stop calling me. He said to me that he doesnt wanna be with his wife. Bullshit I told him that I felt sorry messin around with him but he has a wife and two kids. I told him that If I dont do anything about it right now its goin to get worse. And Im very happy that, I made the right choice by breakin it up. I knew he was married but all that time he had been lying to me. After reading everybodys answer to my question last nite..I had thought about it. Then finally it came to my head....its about damn time. So I did what I had to do, but he's sorry *** said that he needs me and he wants to be with me, I said Hellllllllllllllllllllllll Nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!and now he jsut couldnt stop calling me. The next thing I knew the wife started calling me, bitchin at me because I guess she had seen mah number on her husbands phone, I tried to tell her it wasnt my fault but ****...she was calling me all kinds of names what should I do?

2006-10-28 13:51:49 · 17 answers · asked by simplegurl 1 in Singles & Dating

THERES THIS GIRL I LIKE IN SCHOOL SHE IS IN ONE OF MY CLASSES I DONT KNOW MUCH ABOUT HER BUT SHE IS QUIET IN CLASS.ABOUT THREE DAYS AGO AFTER CLASS I SAID HELLO TO HER AND ASKED HER IF SHE ENJOYED THE CLASS(WE WATCHED A DOCU -MOVIE IN THAT CLASS ) THEN SHE SMILED AND SAID HI AND SHE SAID YA IT WAS SO EXCITING BUT WE ONLY TALKED ABOUT 2 MINUTES . THE NEXT DAY I COULDNT SAY NOTHING BECAUSE SHE WAS TALKING TO SOME GUY AND GIRL THEN THEN TODAY I SAID;HEY KAYLEIGH YOU LOOK PRETTY TODAY AND she said OH YEAH OR SOMETHING. DONT KNOW IF SHE WAS LOST FOR WORDS OR WHAT AND SHE ALWAYS HAS A BEAUTIFUL SMILE WHEN SHE TALKS TO ME. BUT IF I DONT SAY ANYTHING TO HER SHE WONT SAY ANYTHING TO ME LIKE IF I SEE HER IN THE HALL SHE WONT SAY HELLO ONLY IF I SAY IT FIRST THEN SHE WILL SMILE AND RESPOND. i feel like a fool becauase she only talks to me if i talk to her. REALLY LIKE HER WHAT SHOULD I DO

2006-10-28 13:51:49 · 9 answers · asked by king of soccer 1 in Singles & Dating

What do guys look for in a pre-teen ...Looks, strength, popularity, or what? Can u impress a guy ? and how?

2006-10-28 13:51:11 · 5 answers · asked by Volleyballqueen 1 in Singles & Dating

Wife beating is accepted in Islam, how are the Mullas in India reacting to this? It is going against the teachings of Islam. Will the muslim women really come out to speak against their husbands?

2006-10-28 13:50:57 · 8 answers · asked by thachu5 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We are supposed to give food to some one who hasn't had food for long and is hungry & asks for help. If we can afford to give it and don't satisfy one's hunger its not suppsed to be good.
Similarly if a married women who has never been satisfied her hunger for sex by her husband asks a married or unmarried man to satisfy her that hunger and if that man helps her in that is not supposed to be good by so called society. WHY??

2006-10-28 13:50:02 · 4 answers · asked by soofi 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im a teen and i want to get laid. I know all you adults think that, phsss, stupid kids, ur way too young. I know im too young but sex is all that there is on my mind right now other that sports of course. Its saturday night and im really bored, getting readt for a big swim meet tomorrow so cant really hang out. Last week i gave booty call to girl who thought i was kidding ( really was at first, but they thought it would be a cool idea). Well, im about to jump on my cieling if i dont calm myself. I really want to have sex.

2006-10-28 13:49:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, I REALLY like this guy and he likes me. We were togethor today and it was the PERFECT moment for me to kiss him, but I couldn't. Is that odd. Cause right now that's ALL I wanna do. And, when I go to the mall with him again, when's the perfect time to try again?

2006-10-28 13:49:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend says i'm a pimp because i got asked out by 7 girls and told me to go out with all 7 of them HELP?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?????????!!!!!

2006-10-28 13:48:02 · 11 answers · asked by marcus k 1 in Singles & Dating

I've heard that as soon as you get married love flies out the window.

2006-10-28 13:47:48 · 24 answers · asked by marcoporres 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I need a friend because i have none... Please add me or email me.

I am a 14 year old boy who enjoys chatting. I write poetry, short stories, and songs. I like to hear other peoples work as well as my sharing my own. So please contact me cause i need to be contacted.
Some where between 12 and 17 is ok. If you are older than that i guess its ok. Well hope to be chattin with you soon. Hasta lavista.

2006-10-28 13:46:22 · 17 answers · asked by The Jake 1 in Friends

my best friend darya has no time for me anymore we been knowing ecther since 3rd grade.and now im in 8th she's in 7th and were in the same school. and everytime i ask do you want to go to the park or come to the paraid with me she always says she's busy and cant go.what should i do?

2006-10-28 13:45:48 · 10 answers · asked by buble c 1 in Friends

She is mixed race so she will definately want to know why she looks so different from her parents.

2006-10-28 13:44:08 · 26 answers · asked by sweetangel_blonde 2 in Family

What if she had been in the relationship for ten years and had never cheated on her married man?

2006-10-28 13:43:39 · 11 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I'm a 24 year old straight black man and I've always thought that there are three types of men who befriend women.
1. Gay men
2. Men who wanted to get laid, but ended up in the friend zone.
3. Men who are biologically related to their female friends.

The third is the rarest. Am I crazy or are straight men too one-dimensional to befriend a woman?

2006-10-28 13:43:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Once you make a commitment don't things just get boring? Like a married couple or something?

2006-10-28 13:43:02 · 16 answers · asked by bebackhome_safe 2 in Singles & Dating

this is really bad, there is this guy i like i found out he also likes me. but the thing is he is starting to go off me because i am really shy and cannot tlk 2 him i really dont know why, my friends have tried everything to get us together but nothing is working i becoming even worse i really want him but i dont know what is wrong with me...
does any1 have any tips on how to over come my shyness?
thanks

2006-10-28 13:41:33 · 7 answers · asked by W H I T E [ s k y * ] 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 13:39:52 · 16 answers · asked by Volleyballqueen 1 in Singles & Dating

Broke up a month ago, and have been in contact the whole time. Still go out and usually spends the night. We broke up because she needed space and was starting a new job and needed to figure her life out. We have always been good together. The first person she comes to with her problems is me, I am the same way also. I just don't understand what the want's to be "us", without being "us" means. We both haven't dated anyone else, not even looking. So I really don't understand what she means by all of this. Any info would be greatly appreciated. She is 23, and just started her first post college job. I don't know if this has anything to do with it either.

2006-10-28 13:39:44 · 12 answers · asked by john 2 in Singles & Dating

And how do I go about getting into one?
Will the foster parents let me hang out with my friends and leave and such?
Will they tell me if I can have a boyfriend or not?
How does a foster home work?

2006-10-28 13:39:38 · 7 answers · asked by Krispy Kreme 1 in Family

to be honest with you i like to have more children but the thing i dont want is losing my famly.what are the risks? do you know any one with similar experience?

2006-10-28 13:39:21 · 25 answers · asked by reza r 1 in Friends

i have this prb.. for me its so hard to get turned on.. and its makin me a real problems.. espically when im sith someone.. beczo they think that they r the reason..
so is there any way to fix that?

2006-10-28 13:37:52 · 7 answers · asked by heba! 2 in Singles & Dating

besides look/appearance.

2006-10-28 13:37:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found a bf and we had a lot fun together it was like we were sisters. We are no longer speaking to each other for about 2 months and I honestly don't know why. We exchange so words I regert what I said I even apologize and she never did. Her friends didn't like our frienship and I had lots of trouble from my friends. I have tried to communicate I have sent letters, emails and cards. But she won't response, she told me she wanted to be friends. How can I save our friendship. Or should I leave it alone.

2006-10-28 13:37:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hi
i was wondering why ppl say that a person should marry a person from his/her own religion only. and why is it that we are separate, after all the basic point of all religions is integrity.
a guy i met today said -- that ok - say, i am a Sikh and my wife is Christian or Muslim , its ok as far as we have understanding but what about kids -- they would be confused - what religion to follow. but i think i don wanna teach my kids abt the difference between people but the oneness of our race as humans.
moreover, i love my own religion but for some reason i don like thinking of most of the people (orthodox) and i wish to settle with someone very broadminded and someone out of my own culture , but i don plan to impose my beliefs on her either.
but i was wondering if there are issues with children being confused or any other clashes like that.

2006-10-28 13:36:48 · 7 answers · asked by i don know y 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This is a friend of mine. She likes many boys but they ALL find her to be an unattractive, dark skinned girl, skinny,short hair and always were weave,medium height, wears makeup and is in the 8th grade kinda of girl. Many people have talked about her and i hate seeing her get hurt. They say she looks like a man too. She has never had a boyfriend in her 13 years of life. What should she do? She waits patiently on the phone for you'lls responses.

2006-10-28 13:36:16 · 16 answers · asked by Jumper 2 in Singles & Dating