Get Boyfriend 2 Care?

Question

Im 17 my boyfriend is 18. We go 2 an alternative school, i guess thats what its called over there. IM from argentina, anyway its a school you go to when u flunked the real school.
Thing is, im studying and i wanna get him 2 study. I wanna get him 2 work and exercise. Not for me. But cuz hes depressed and i used 2 b like him, till i got up and did stuff. And i want him 2 do so 2. Or else i just cant keep the relationship going. i dont know if anyone understood, but thats the deal anyway. thanx

Answer 1

Honey you cannot save him the only thing that will happen is that he will drag you down with him. Cut your losses and cut this looser. he has bigger problems than you can solve and if you keep on you are gonna get stuck in them too. I understand exactly what you are feeling and trust me it will not work if he won't do these things for himself you cannot get him to do them. Study hard and get your education and make something of yourself, that is where yo should be putting your energy. I know it might be hard but unless you want his mess to become your life you had best move on.

Answer 2

You can't make him do anything he doesn't want to do. Sounds like the two of you have come to an impass, he wants to "vegitate" while you want to make something of your life. I suggest you leave him where he is and move on with your life or else he could very well bring you down again.
You might suggest that he seek help because he cold be suffering from depression But you've pulled yourself back up you don't need him to pull you back down.

Answer 3

have a good talk to him and ask him what he wants from life and tell him he has so much potenial that he can be anything he wants to be but he has to work at it u are doing the right thing for yourself if all else fails you will g ps never try to change a man by marring him it never workset ahead and prosper good uck