I found a bf and we had a lot fun together it was like we were sisters. We are no longer speaking to each other for about 2 months and I honestly don't know why. We exchange so words I regert what I said I even apologize and she never did. Her friends didn't like our frienship and I had lots of trouble from my friends. I have tried to communicate I have sent letters, emails and cards. But she won't response, she told me she wanted to be friends. How can I save our friendship. Or should I leave it alone.
2006-10-28 13:37:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Leave it alone. It's not worth the stress & trouble. Just let it go & don't let her see that it bothers you.
2006-10-28 13:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this problem. You are probably spending all of your time with your boyfriend without realizing it. And your friend doesn't want to hang out with you if you're boyfriend is with you. She's not friends with him. Maybe she liked the guy and never told you and is just upset about the whole situation. Explain to her that you know that you have been spending a lot of time with your boyfriend but you don't want that to ruin your friendship.
2006-10-28 20:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Blegh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just probably feels that she has been replaced. that ur bf is taking up the time u used to spend with her, she is probably feelin jealous (cos im assuming she doesnt have a bf?). she also feels that ur friendship is too much hard work (judging by the pbvious opposition from both ur friendship groups) and has given up. do u still want her as a friend??
2006-10-28 20:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by flying_tigers999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it sucks, you should leave it alone. Find someone worthy of your time. Just think about the fun times you guys had together, and find nicer friends.
2006-10-28 20:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by <3 <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is your best friends, she'll be your best friends. We must be careful how we use the words friends because everyone isn't yoour friend. Just chill out and if she wants to talk about, she'll talk.
2006-10-28 20:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by freeme529 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she is just gonna keep ignoring you, then why should you be her friend? I don't think you want to be playing games like that all of the time. Just start ignoring her like she is doing to you!
2006-10-28 20:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by Katelyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talkin about it ...or even trying to is good
she is jelous and a friend like that isn't always what u want
2006-10-28 20:43:55 · answer #7 · answered by Volleyballqueen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it alone ...when shes ready shell come around im shure...if not ..youll have plenty of time to make new friends im shure....life is like that sometimes ..use it as a lesson from life..good luck...
2006-10-28 20:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will maybe you friend dales not like him and maybe now she will not talk 2 you if you were a real friend you would ask her y she Danes not like me and you will see she haves a good Anders
2006-10-28 20:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by jessica a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her.and maybe you should see your bf less and talk to her more for alittle bit and then go back to him and see where it leads you.
2006-10-28 20:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by buble c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋