my best friend darya has no time for me anymore we been knowing ecther since 3rd grade.and now im in 8th she's in 7th and were in the same school. and everytime i ask do you want to go to the park or come to the paraid with me she always says she's busy and cant go.what should i do?
2006-10-28 13:45:48 · 10 answers · asked by buble c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh, I know just what you're talking about. My so- called best friend is the same way. Right now, I am wondering if her and I really should be friends at all. She don't even call me either. You should talk to your friend about her habits, and what you feel about it. Confront her face to face or over the phone. Hopefully it helps you out. How is she your best friend if she's younger than you? Maybe you should find someone your own age, and is able to know whats going on, and you guys may be able to get along better. You will always be on the same page and everything. After you confront your current friend, give her one more chance. If it continues, find a new one!
~~If she was your real friend,~~
~~she would find more time!~~
2006-10-28 14:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by PRiNcEsSmO999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buble: Your friend, Darya, is changing. She is reaching out (expanding) in her search for finding out who she is. This is normal and comes as a part of the maturing process of life. What you need to do is reach out yourself and find new friends, do new things and take time to have fun. Make sure though, that you don't be mad a Darya. Accept her as she is and don't try to change her. If you do, she will begin to really dislike you and fight against you. Just give her room to grow in. Growing up is hard work. The body changes and the mind is trying to catch up ... but in time, it does and you become an adult. Good luck to you !!!
2006-10-28 20:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try avoiding her for a while, if she is a true friend she will start hanging out with you and going places with you again.
But this is hard since she is a best friend of yours and it's hard to see best friends leave (I know from experience).
2006-10-28 21:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother with her. if shes too busy for u. show her that u can have way more fun without her. wait till she comes to u . i noe she's ur best friend and its hard to to see ur bestfriend being friends with someone else. but if she doesn't have time for u ... is she really ur bestfriend. bestfreind should always have time for u. talk to her about it if u like. otherwise shes'll just walk all over u. and u should never let anyone walk all over u.
2006-10-28 20:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by pOppY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find a new best friend.
maybe she doesn't want to be BEST friends with you anymore. why not just friends? i was best friends with a girl my entire life and all of a sudden i couldn't stand her. not another momment in the presents. it was just too much fun i guess? i feel awful of course and i miss the times we had but she changed too.
2006-10-28 20:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by cheer girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT THE 2 OF YOU HAVE JUST GROWN APART. AND YOU NEED TO FIND A NEW BEST FRIEND. IT WILL BE HARD, SINCE YOU ALL HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR SO LONG. IT IS JUST TIME TO MOVE ON. SORRY!
2006-10-28 21:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paraid? Maybe she can't stand that you like parades, or your horrific spelling is getting to her. Either way your better off without her. Superficial people who care about misspellings and typos are worthless.
2006-10-28 20:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by standinghampton11 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
will if she has not time 4 you she is not a friend she is telling you get lost i do not like you any more
2006-10-28 20:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by jessica a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am kinda with your friend on this one
2006-10-28 20:48:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sit down and tell her how you feel
2006-10-28 20:48:42 · answer #10 · answered by Chris N 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋